Been seeing a guy for about a month..very full on, everything seemed to be going good. However, haven't heard from him for 2 days as he had to work. Sent him a text asking him if he was ok and received this reply:-
"I'm just not into doing anything at the moment, just can't seem to get out of this funk i'm am in. I assume it will pass. bare with me"
What does that mean? Is he finishing with me but doesn't know how to do it? I don't mind if he is (well it's only been a month!) but not too sure what he is saying
2007-03-26 16:02:41 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
think he wants you to wait till he,s ready must be moving a bit to quickly for him ..........hope everything turns out fine ..good luck
2007-03-26 16:07:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can only offer you an opinion to this, I would probably take it that this bloke maybe a bit of a dramatist. He may be trying to get more attention from you (in a blokey kind of way). If you want to continue seeing him you have to go round there and ask him, tell him you didn't understand the 'funk' thing and just be honest.
2007-03-26 16:15:47 · answer #2 · answered by sallyburgess1970@btinternet.com 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think hes just asking for a bit of space and time. He might be having some personal problems - work - family whatever - I think you should just send him a txt back saying that you're totally cool giving him a bit of leeway and if you be of any help you're just at the end of the phone.
Then dont contact him anymore - I know it'll be tough for you but you have to respect his wishes here.
xx
2007-03-26 22:39:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means he hasn't grasped spelling yet.
Sorry... that's just a pet hate of mine.
Well if he's bothered to say '[bear] with me,' then at least he wants you to know that he wants you to stick around. As you said, the relationship's been very full-on. That sort of situation eventually takes its toll on people and they need a bit of space and time to catch their breath.
Don't worry so much. Just wait and see.
2007-03-26 17:23:27 · answer #4 · answered by Phil K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
translation:
'im chilling and not ready to get into anything serious right now, but i would like to keep you around if you wanna wait for me. "
He might even have another girl or a few, and he's caught up in some drama!! tell you one thing... its springtime and usually the time where this happens! do your self a favor and turn the tables.. never appear to be available to show him that your not sittin around waiting. make him come to you, and prove that he wants you in his life cause if he wanted u he would have the decency to talk to u.. good luck
2007-03-26 16:08:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he has a problem not related to you that he needs time to get his head around it. He probably doesn't want to talk to you about it, because he hasn't known you long enough.
Drop him a text asking if you can be of any help and then give him some space to sort it out.
It doesn't sound like you've got anything to be paranoid about to me.
2007-03-30 03:42:43 · answer #6 · answered by Jugular 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't hear from him in 2 days and you're fretting? It's a new relationship and the guy is probably feeling a little stifled with all the "very full on" attention you've been giving him. Give him some breathing space please!
2007-03-26 19:17:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As you have only been seeing this guy for a month why was it "full on" already. I would be careful it sounds as if he could be busy with someone else, dont let him dangle you on a string. Good luck
2007-03-26 17:29:06 · answer #8 · answered by Kirks Folley 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is dealing with some issues of his own. Maybe he is trying to figure out if he really wants to be in a relationship or not. You should be thankful he is doing it now instead of 6 months from now.
2007-03-26 16:07:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he meant that he is in a rut, so to speak. I wouldn't give up on him a man is very bold and telling us that they don't want us anymore. Give him a bit of a chance and understand why he is going through this and see if you can help him with it. Take care Heather
2007-03-26 16:06:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's just feeling depressed, he did say bare with him, so i'd assume he's not planning on dumping you! you need to make an effort to meet up and find out whats going on, he may just need someone to talk to, you know how men are, so shy about sharing their feelings an all!
good luck!
2007-03-26 16:11:37 · answer #11 · answered by sprite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋