i opened a letter that came in the mail addressed to him. i know i shouldnt have but nosiness got the better of me.
anyway it was a love letter from a girl that is not his girlfriend. i really dont know what to do.
please dont give me a lecture about not opening other peoples mail... its too late for that. i need solutions
2007-03-26 16:02:32 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your do realize that both of them may get angry with you for not minding your business. I would keep out of it. If he cheats she will find out soon enough on her own. If he's a louse, he's still your brother for life and you love him.
2007-03-26 16:13:13 · answer #1 · answered by solotrovo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, maybe it is a one-way love. Maybe she's a stalker sort and he's not actually interested in her. Most likely not, but it could happen. I would definitely talk to your brother about it before mentioning anything to his girlfriend. Maybe it will give him a wakeup call if he really is cheating, since he wasn't expecting anyone to find out.
2007-03-26 23:06:33 · answer #2 · answered by Smiles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay out of it. It's not your business, oh Nosey One. So, you know your brother is a slime. You lost a lot of respect for him when you found that out, I'm sure. You can call him on it, or not. But, there isn't anything that you can really do about it. He's is own person, and he is going to make his own mistakes.
2007-03-26 23:08:20 · answer #3 · answered by sarlha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's so hard to decide what to do in such a situation but I've always been taught to stick with family so I personally wouldn't tell his girlfriend. I would, however, let him know how disappointed I am in him and that I expected more.
2007-03-26 23:07:12 · answer #4 · answered by Caribbean Belle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't betray your family. Your brother will be with you for life and to betray him and take his gf side who will be out of your life as soon as you tell her is just wreckless stupidity. Mind your own buissneess (like don't read his mail) and stay out of this. Even if you don't agree with what he does or his choises it's not your place to step in.
2007-03-26 23:14:49 · answer #5 · answered by EWSA_Tricky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
brother or worst enemy i think that you should let her know. and actually i am happy you opened it! nobody deserves to be cheated on no matter who you are. honestly you need to let her know but you need to proof with you. she may not want to hear it and it may hurt her and your brother but you need to do it. i know it is none of your business but honestly wouldnt you want your boyfriends sister to tell you that he is cheating? your brother may be mad at you for a while but he will eventually get over it and thank you for it in the long run. good luck and i hope i helped you!
2007-03-26 23:12:45 · answer #6 · answered by lc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suppose you could confront him, depending on how close you guys are. However, it is his problem and you really have no right telling her unless you are really good friends with her. Still, you don't know the entire situation and unless it is going to affect you somehow, it is your bro's burden.
2007-03-26 23:07:57 · answer #7 · answered by lyzz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well does your bro know that u read it? well maybe if your bro hasn't read it or nething u can inform his gf and then maybe write the girl explaining he has a gf already and that it mite be best if they don't see each other or keep in contact or to at least be just friends
2007-03-26 23:06:44 · answer #8 · answered by savcav 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever you do please dont tell the women about eachother it's his business to tell, or not. I am sure he is going to notice that the letter was opened so if you just have to discuss it talk to him.
2007-03-26 23:14:05 · answer #9 · answered by Kapone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think you should talk to your brother first and let him know like dude are you cheating on her! just be real honest! and if her is just tell him yo dont do that you are just goin to end up hurting yourself!
2007-03-26 23:08:00 · answer #10 · answered by feelfree 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋