im in the 8th grade and i have found someone that i really really like...i told my friend and she is telling me to go up to him and say hi or something like that but i am too shy to do that. What if i mess up. In class i have problems reading a simple paragraph. when i have a speech i stumble over some of the most easiest words. i want to get to know him but i don't know how and my friend said to flirt but i don't know how to do that either. what should i do? if u have any tips plz give them to me
2007-03-26 16:00:48 · 7 answers · asked by Kayla 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i am also new in this school i don't have very many friends
2007-03-26 16:08:27 · update #1
Hey Anime!
I had the same issue when I was your age & I had a crush on one of the most popular guys in school. I was NOT in the popular crew, though. I was only semi-popular 7 hung out w/ a totally different crew of people. But ya know what? "The only things in life you'll regret are the risks you didnt take." So, walk up to him, cool as a breeze & just say hey, want to go out some time? Come off as if his answer won't matter a LICK to you wither way. REGARDLESS of his answer, be cool! Relaxed! (For a shy gal, I know how hard that is, but trust me, you'll be known as fearless & very brave if you pull it off)If he says yes, then nonchalantly tell him you'll talk to him later (make an excuse that you have to head off to class quickly) to set up a time & place, and if he says no, just say ok, thanks. & walk away. If he sees you struggle with it, then he'll have an excuse to make you a target later. Get him alone, if possible. I hope this helps! Best of luck!
2007-03-26 16:09:45 · answer #1 · answered by Spiral_Dancer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you just go up and at least say hi to him or ask him something that you think he might be interested in it could get a conversation started and then you could become more comfortable around him and you never know you guys could become really good friends and he might even ask you out. it happens all the time at my school. im in 8th grade too and trust me my friends do the same thing and so do i! the guy i like right now sits next to me in like 2 of my classes and me and him are like really good friends because we talk so much. but just say SOMETHING! trust me.....anything is better than nothing!
2007-03-26 16:05:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try playing it cool around him, you know like saying hi, waving to him, just be yourself kind a things. Get his attention as a friend first, then you will discover that you are not as shy around him, and loosen up dont worry about how good you look and stuff just be normal and he should like you!
well hope this helps
Good Luck
Love, JenniferrLeighh
2007-03-26 16:06:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's high-quality dude. Be your self. i'm like you. i do not communicate a lot in huge communities both. If human beings opt to communicate they're going to allow you to comprehend. only watch for indications like a grin or a nor or some thing diffused. human beings will refer to you yet attempt to consult three often times. pay interest to what they're talking about and perhaps you've gotten some thing to characteristic or a unique standpoint.
2016-10-17 21:28:35 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Smile at him, just start out by saying hi. Then, when he's alone, go up and talk to him. If you don't talk to him, then you won't get to know him. However, if you act friendly, then it will work out for you.
2007-03-26 16:04:15 · answer #5 · answered by love 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have a true friend talk to him. someone you can trust. and someone outgoing who is not afraid to do that for you. tell her to tell him to talk to you. (did you get all that?? lol)
2007-03-26 16:05:27 · answer #6 · answered by Nameless 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have ur friend to ask for you
2007-03-26 16:04:09 · answer #7 · answered by mz.koffee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋