I went on a date with a girl and she told me that she was 17. I find out later that she is actually 15. I really like this girl and she is very pretty. My close friends keep telling me its ok. But im not sure.
2007-03-26 15:55:06 · 14 answers · asked by Koncrete 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you really like this girl than go ahead. She is only 2 1/2 years younger. If you really like her, than you should stay with her.
2007-03-26 16:10:43 · answer #1 · answered by Brendan G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's okay to date her, so long as it's fine with her parents and they understand the age difference.
You should ask her why she lied to you about her age. If you were 17 at the time and she told you she was 17 while she was really 15, and the two of you had sex, you could be sent to jail for it.
While it is okay for you two to date, it's inappropriate for the two of you to have sex. Keep it on the more casual side until she gets to be 18 too.
2007-03-26 16:00:51 · answer #2 · answered by Annie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO!!!! It's only a few years apart, but at those ages, that 3 years makes a HUGE difference. You have probably graduated, or are about to. So while you start worrying about careers and moving out and bills and responsibilities, she's worrying about high school dances and what to wear tomorrow! You are both at such different stages in your life. It's better just to let it go. If, once she's done school, you still both feel the same way, then give it a try.
Sorry
2007-03-26 16:00:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is hard cause' you have to be careful, don't tell people her real age just say she looks young because there is always someone out there that might try to hurt you by saying that u'r dating a minor. A friend of mine was loocked up for that same reason he was 18 & she was 15, they had a baby but someone was jealous and told on him and he went to jail. Be careful but if u like this girl go for it just don't call attention to yourself. Good Luck!
2007-03-26 16:01:00 · answer #4 · answered by grissy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a tough one. It depends on if her parents are ok with it. If they are not, they can press charges and have you arrested. Most states, the age of consent when they cannot press charges anymore is 16 (a few are 17 or 18 - so check your state to see what the age of consent is). It is not worth going to jail over. If her parents are okay with it, then it's no big deal.
One more thought - you may not want to date her anyway since she lied to you. Lies are not a good thing to build a relationship on.
2007-03-26 16:00:10 · answer #5 · answered by jointupp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
with some it ok but other its not with me i say go for it . I was 15 when i started date my bf and he was 19.
2007-03-26 15:58:57 · answer #6 · answered by mz.koffee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm sorry to burst your bubble, but it's probably not such a good idea. That's a fairly large age gap in mentality- not to mention it would be illegal for you to do anything sexual. If you do decide to continue the relationship, make sure to be cautious. good luck.
2007-03-26 16:01:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry to say that it is not. I mean if you like her you should like still be friends and stuff. but technically...it's against the law for a non minor to date a minor.
2007-03-26 15:59:50 · answer #8 · answered by Nameless 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're legally an adult. shes legally a minor. not good. besides, theres a big difference in maturity levels anyway, even if u may not realize it now.
2007-03-26 16:03:08 · answer #9 · answered by SweetDarlin' 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its okay if its cool with her parents. don't forget you are 18 and she is jail bate if her parents don't agree. id meet them first then go from there.
2007-03-26 16:02:53 · answer #10 · answered by sharebear80817 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋