Should I be worried? Or is this just something guys do. HELP!!!
2007-03-26 15:47:26 · 7 answers · asked by h_how2 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get married.
2007-03-26 15:50:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's doing something like that he's not 100% serious about you. You shouldn't put up with it. Cheating can be defined as many things. Sometimes it's hard to tell - it basically boils down to this: it's cheating if you wouldn't do it (whatever it is) with your significant other or spouse standing right there. So if you found out about it on your own - he's got bad intentions. If he told you about it himself - he's playing mind games with you and probably doesn't know if you're serious or not. But he could be. Either way, you should not allow him to treat you with this type of disrespect. When people get away with the tiniest little thing in a relationship they seem to tend to wonder, "what else could I get away with?" Stand your ground.
2007-03-26 22:57:29 · answer #2 · answered by shellj_foxy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This isn't something guys just do. If he's going into online dating services, clearly he's doing somehting or looking for someone. Confront him and ask him why he's doing it. Is he not happy with his home and his kids and you? Ask him or else he's not worth it. Accroding to his response you'll know what to do or say afterwards. But don't think this is normal because it's not, he has nothing to be doing in those services.
2007-03-26 22:54:32 · answer #3 · answered by grissy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him, he is obviously doesnt seem to care that he has commited to you and your kids.. if he is looking for soemthing outside it doesnt mean you werent good enough it means he has no sense of integrity and doesnt respect the relationship you are in.. i dont get why some women on this network put up with men like this, he is cheating on you and he will again... its just the type of man he is, a cheater, a liar and ther is only pain for you if you continue...8 years is a long time... but im sure u saw the signs ... u just chose to ingnore them honey, now do the right thing for your kids and soon you will find a good man who wont up and leave or look to another when reality sets in.....
2007-03-26 23:00:04 · answer #4 · answered by Nadz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My man is still on the dating site but I really try not to worry about it i think it's just for attention.
2007-03-26 22:54:33 · answer #5 · answered by Babydoll 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him what he wants to do. Does he want to find other girlfriends and run off with them? I think he is trying to run away from you and the children. He prefers bachelorhood.
2007-03-26 22:53:44 · answer #6 · answered by happy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he wants something sexual and is afraid to ask, so you better figure out what it is, or he is goneeeeeeeeee............
2007-03-26 22:52:17 · answer #7 · answered by Paybackisamofo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋