i was in a relationship with this guy but he was still inlove with his ex gf. we are all broken up now and i still love him sooo much. i will honestly do anything for him still. we are still friends though, but how can u be friends with someone u love? what should i do?
2007-03-26 15:08:49 · 16 answers · asked by Sensational 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well this is definantly a tough situation. I think you should call it quits all together. It sounds hard, but the reality is, you love him and he does not love you. You continuing to stay friends, is only going to make things harder for you. You are always going to have that hope that he will just quit the EX and run to you, which sounds to me like it will not happen. You obviously want to be more than friends, so a real honost friendship is pretty much impossible. Move on. Hey, if he really wants you he'll come to you. Untill then, don't waste your time. Plenty of fish in the sea chick-a-roonie! So quit looking at the water and get a pole honey!!!!!!! Hope you find a good one!
2007-03-26 15:18:58 · answer #1 · answered by stick_e_bun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just some advice from the latest "ugly betty" episode...if you can't be with a guy, and you still love him, it's not worth it to be friends with him. The pain it would cause you to spend time with him knowing he was with this other girl isn't worth it. Noone deserves that. Give the two of them some space, and try to expand your social network and hang out with other people. Even though it may be difficult at first, in the long run you will be much happier and will have spent some time with other people. Maybe after a while, when you feel like you can be friends without being upset, then you can rebuild your friendship with him, but I recommend staying away for a while
Good luck
2007-03-26 15:14:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can be friends with someone you love. If you want more, then why did you guys break up? Go see if it can be worked out. If not, be strong and be happy it didnt end on a bad note to where you couldnt even be friends anymore. Good luck
2007-03-26 15:11:51 · answer #3 · answered by BE HAPPY! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if he still loves his girlfriend and all, then you should step a side, and don't get involve with this. If you get involve with this, then your gonna cause a REAL problem. And, you can't love one guy forever, there's other fish in the sea, before you can catch one, you need to see what's good for you before you reel it in. And, do what I always do, find another guy. Well, not in,"I Love You", way.
I hoped I helped
Good Luck!
2007-03-26 15:18:30 · answer #4 · answered by TempoBronze124 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot make someone love you. If he went back with you, you will be happy but to a certain extent because in the back of your head your going to keep asking yourself if he is thinking of you or thinking of her. I guess it is okay that you guys are still friends, one day you will realize that it is for the best. Good Luck..
2007-03-26 15:15:05 · answer #5 · answered by just meeh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should probably try to be friends if you want to, but don't try to get back together with him. It's very possible that he would just cheat on you again which I don't think you would want... I also just find it silly that you can still love someone who cheated on you. Or maybe you don't truly understand love, yet? When you love someone, you should love them for their flaws, too. And I just don't see how I could love that kind of flaw. But it is your choice. I'm just saying that I wouldn't even want to be his friend.
2007-03-26 15:16:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can of course be friends only but then again you'd be cheating yourself. If he just doesn't love you back as much as you love him or as much as he should or the way you want him to, you are just making it tougher on yourself by hanging on. "Let it go", easier said than done but it'll just get worse, believe me. Don't live on false hopes.
2007-03-26 15:14:36 · answer #7 · answered by Eternal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't be friends with someone you was involved with. there will always be some kind of feeling there. your just going to have to let him go.. he's in a state of mind where he still has his ex on his mind.
2007-03-26 15:13:45 · answer #8 · answered by Blake 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well just act as if he just another guy friend! just think to ur self i don't like him...thats wot i do my ex even though i shouldn't! it works and my ex has ask me back out a couple times as well ;)
2007-03-26 15:12:49 · answer #9 · answered by Kallee n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read this.
http://4umi.com/gibran/prophet/19.htm
2007-03-26 15:16:59 · answer #10 · answered by paralegaltechnik 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋