2007-03-26 15:06:37 · 10 answers · asked by K 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Sounds like my fiance's world you are living in.
Are you paying child support? If so go through domestic relations office for this problem... and be nice even when it's a hard road to be traveling on.
Both men and women should pay the custodial parent for the upkeep of the child, and unfortunatly there is not much out there for the fathers. I am sorry about your promblem, good luck.
2007-03-26 15:14:49 · answer #1 · answered by turdan1976 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am happily married with 2 beautiful daughters aged 13 and 6 so I'm happy things happend as they did, if not we would not be in a loving family now, I was in a long term relationship with 13 year olds "sperm doner", fathers stick around, he walked out 2 days before I was pre booked to have a c- section delivery, while on the operating table he was at home with a removalist truck and took everything, I came home with a 4 day old baby and didn't even have a tea spoon left, 13 years down the track he still owes $6500.00 in arrear payments, he has remarried and has 2 boys, but he stays on unemployment so he doesn't have to pay child support, his own family have to go with out because he won't do the right thing according to the Government, he is a typical dead beat Dad !!!!!
2007-03-27 04:49:21 · answer #2 · answered by The Boss 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Pay the support and they'll quit hounding you. You were there to make the kids, you should help support them too. Maybe you should look into keeping it in your pants and you won't have any other psycho exes hounding you for it too.
2007-03-26 22:21:11 · answer #3 · answered by pixie 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The answer is (if you have NOT paid the ordered child support)
PAY UP! PAY the Child Support to your custodial parent Ex-es .. because ...
since you decided to drop your drawers to contribute the genetic material for the creation of these children ...
THEN ...
YOU need to be MAN ENOUGH to be a REAL MAN and provide for the CHILDREN as well!
IF you are being RESPONSIBLE and have paid per the order -- then you can provide that information to the Friend of the Court or Enforcement Bureau.
2007-03-26 22:36:43 · answer #4 · answered by sglmom 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well the honor system doesnt work, thats been proven.
i have no idea why they are bothering, when they should just be asking the Attorney General for warrants for arrest. matter of fact, they dont even have to ask... the state and federal government automatically does that anyway.
DEADBEATS
http://www.wantedposters.com/deadbeats_usa_a_to_f.htm
http://www.angelfire.com/creep/deadbeatparentssuck/
http://www.deadbeatjustice.com/list.htm
www.goodparentspay.com
CHILD SUPPORT CALCULATOR
http://www.alllaw.com/calculators/childsupport/
YOUR STATES CS POLICY
http://childsupportcenter.org/stateprofiles.php
ABANDONMENT (NO SHOW PARENTS)
http://www.alllaw.com/articles/family/
NOT ALL PARENTS LOVE THEIR CHILDREN
And "RATIONAL LIES"
http://www.alllaw.com/articles/family/child_custody/article7.asp
FREE LEGAL HELP IN YOUR STATE
(just click on your state to find contact info)
http://www.lawhelp.org/
LAWS
http://www.divorcehq.com/spprtgroups.html
http://www.divorceinfo.com/statebystate.htm
http://www.divorcenet.com/states
http://www.divorcesource.com/
http://www.divorcesource.com/info/deadbeat/deadbeat.shtml
http://www.divorcecentral.com/
http://family.findlaw.com/
http://law.onecle.com/new-jersey/ (change the state to yours)
http://family.findlaw.com/child-support/unpaid-support/support-orders-enforcement.html
http://www.divorcehq.com/deadbeat.html
http://www.divorceinanutshell.com/
http://www.lawchek.com/Library1/_books/domestic/qanda/childsupp.htm
http://family.findlaw.com/child-support/support-laws/state-child-/
http://www.supportguidelines.com/resources.html
http://www.supportguidelines.com/links.html
http://www.supportguidelines.com/laypersons.html
http://www.supportguidelines.com/articles/news.html
http://family.findlaw.com/child-support/support-basics/
http://www.spiesonline.net/deadbeat.shtml
http://www.childsupport-aces.org/index2.html
STATS
http://www.childsupport-aces.org/acesstatistics.html
FINDING DEADBEATS
(and background cks to find them)
http://www.usarecordssearch.com/
http://deadbeatsnitch.com/
http://www.wantedposters.com/skiptrace.htm
http://find.intelius.com/search-name.php?ReportType=1&
http://omnitrace.com/Missing-Persons-Search.html?OVRAW=deadbeat&OVKEY=deadbeat&OVMTC=standard
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http://www.peoplefinders.com
http://zabasearch.com/
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http://www.abika.com/
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http://www.backgroundcheckgateway.com/
http://www.backgroundcheckgateway.com/locate-people.html
FED AGENCIES
http://www.ncsea.org/
http://www.nfja.org/index.shtml
http://www.naag.org/issues/issue-consumer.php
REGIONAL FEDERAL CHILD SUPPORT OFFICES
http://www.acf.hhs.gov/programs/oro/regions/acf_regions.html
FACTS AND REGIONAL FEDERAL CS OFFICE INFO
http://www.acf.hhs.gov/programs/cse/fct/fct4.htm
http://www.divorcesource.com/WI/ARTICLES/beaulier11.html
http://www.acf.dhhs.gov/opa/fact_sheets/cse_factsheet.html
http://www.acf.dhhs.gov/programs/cse/newhire/index.html
http://www.acf.dhhs.gov/programs/cse/faq.html
http://www.acf.hhs.gov/programs/cse/newhire/fop/passport.htm
http://www.acf.hhs.gov/programs/cse/newhire/fop/fop.htm
http://www.acf.hhs.gov/programs/cse/newhire/faq/faq.htm
http://www.acf.dhhs.gov/programs/cse/extinf.html
http://www.acf.dhhs.gov/programs/cse/
http://www.acf.dhhs.gov/grants/grants_cse.html
http://www.acf.dhhs.gov/index.html
http://www.acf.hhs.gov/programs/region2/index.html
http://www.fms.treas.gov/faq/offsets_childsupport.html
http://www.govbenefits.gov/govbenefits_en.portal
http://www.fedstats.gov/qf/
http://www.fedworld.gov/gov-links.html
http://fatherhood.hhs.gov/pfs92/ch3.htm
SSI AND DISABILITY
FOR CHILD SUPPORT
https://s044a90.ssa.gov/apps6z/ISBA/main.html
http://www.ssa.gov/policy/docs/policybriefs/pb2004-02.html
http://www.ssa.gov/notices/supplemental-security-income/
http://family.findlaw.com/
FIND YOUR REPS
http://www.usa.gov/
http://www.usa.gov/Agencies/State_and_Territories.shtml
http://www.nga.org
http://www.naag.org/attorneys_general.php
http://judiciary.senate.gov/
CHILD SUPPORT LIEN NETWORK
(some states work with them)
http://www.childsupportliens.com/
COLLECTORS
http://www.supportkids.com/
http://www.supportcollectors.com/faq.php
http://www.deadbeatdadfinders.com/
http://www.deadbeatdadfinders.com/links.html
http://www.childsupport-aces.org/index2.html
http://www.divorcesource.com/info/deadbeat/deadbeat.shtml
TAX INFO
http://www.taxsites.com/index.htm
http://www.divorceinfo.com/taxes.htm
http://www.irs.gov/taxtopics/tc354.html
http://www.irs.gov/taxtopics/tc422.html
http://www.irs.gov/faqs/faq4-5.html
http://www.irs.gov/localcontacts/index.html
http://www.irs.gov/advocate/index.html
http://www.irs.gov/publications/p525/index.html
http://www.fms.treas.gov/faq/offsets_childsupport.html
http://www.irs.gov/publications/p504/ar02.html#d0e563
http://money.cnn.com/2007/02/14/pf/taxes/do_not_miss_tax_breaks/index.htm?postversion=2007021411
REPORT DEADBEATS
WORKING UNDER THE TABLE
(in writing, to your local and federal IRS offices)
http://www.irs.gov/localcontacts/index.html
http://www.irs.gov/compliance/enforcement/article/0,,id=106778,00.html
SEX OFFENDERS
http://www.mapsexoffenders.com/
http://www.scanusa.com/
http://www.nsopr.gov/
http://www.familywatchdog.us/Default.asp
2007-03-27 12:41:19 · answer #5 · answered by Yvette B yvetteb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uhhhh Pay the support!!!! Men like you suck!!!!!! My loser ex hasnt payed in 6 months and like you he has no idea how much it cost to raise kids and what it takes. If you dont want to pay get it snipped and then you dont have to worry and another kids wont have to miss out
2007-03-26 22:12:41 · answer #6 · answered by Just Me 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be a man and suck it up, pay them. You are lucky you are not in jail and if you are not going to contribute to the financial care of ( YOUR CHILDREN) that is where you need to be.
2007-03-26 22:18:59 · answer #7 · answered by shyone 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
are you the same one who borrowed ur brother's car?
You need to get ur life together my friend
Take care of ur kids, pay their child support and give ther car back
2007-03-26 22:16:25 · answer #8 · answered by EnjoyR3d 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you were man enough to get them then you should be man enough to take care of them
2007-03-26 22:18:10 · answer #9 · answered by seadove65 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
PAY! Problem solved.
2007-03-26 22:16:19 · answer #10 · answered by kp 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋