do you think its love? i seriously need to know what to do?

Question

i met this great guy through my best friends brother, we just hung out over at my friends house when he was with her brother & never really talked but 2 years ago he asked me to go out with him at the time my parents hated him & didnt know him so i wasnt aloud to go do anything with him, long story short, we ended up breaking up because of my father, i cried for like 2 weeks &he would call me almost in tears then my parents finally got to know him and let us date. he is so sweet, we absolutely loved eachother, he even said how i made him want to write more songs & play them to me on his guitar&everyone said we were perfect for eachother but i travel a lot & i race mx so i hang out with a lot of guys at the track, he got jealous & thought i was cheating on him while i was traveling. i wasnt. so we broke up but after he still told me he loved me,we still talk & he has a gf he says he loves me & there isnt anyone like me i cant stop thinkin of him i can tell him anything but not this.

i have so many feelings for him and he still says that he wishes we were still doing stuff. he calls me at midnight just to talk and came to my birthday dinner and said something about how if it wasnt for some stupid guy we would still be together. do you think that we are meant to be? i think its love but im not sure. we are both 17 and he has a gf right now but complains about her to me. im worried i might loose him so i dont know what i should do.

Answer 1

I would say....go to a movie.

Answer 2

What is he doing around still fooling around with you if he already has a girlfriend??? He is just fooling you. If he loved you in the first place. he should have not broken up with you with some stupid lame excuse and accusing you of cheating in the first place. That just shows you how little trust he has in you. I think that was just an excuse to break up with you because he met another girl namely his present girlfriend now. I smell a dirty rat here. He wants his cake and eat it too. Move on and find another Guy worthy of your LOVE. You are too young anyhow. There will be many more puppy love in your life. This is just one of many but you need to be more smart and know when a guy is playing with your emotion like this exboyfriend of yours.. Dont be sweet talk by him. Does his girlfriend knows he is double timing her? I bet he is keeping this a secret.

Answer 3

If he really loves you, he will trust you. He is blaming someone else for your breakup....no one can separate people who are truly in love with one another. He sounds insecure and immature....maybe your parent's fears for you were grounded in the first place. Why is he still seeing this other girl when he is calling you at midnight and complaining about her ? You obviously have doubts about him otherwise you wouldn't be asking these questions. Why not just go about your life and see how, and if, he fits in. If it's meant to be, he will adjust to your likes and interests and stop blaming you for his problem with sincerity. Put yourself first and see how your life is without him complicating everything....there are a million guys in this world who would love a sincere girl like you....give yourself a chance.....don't trust someone who needs more than one girl in their life....or who complains about your relationship rather than proving he is worthy of it.

Answer 4

I think that in my perspective that yall are meant to be dont you think that if yall wearnt meant to be together that yall would not have kept talkin i mean im not tryin to be mean but think that you really need to tell him the way you feel and stop tryin to play i dont know if i like you still cause you know you do so why wait, could you see him as the guy that you spend the rest of your life with? but i think that i will leave the rest to you!.... good luck

Answer 5

yes.. go to a movie.....