ok so get this i like this girl and she likes me but were not goin out.... but on Sat. i didnt text her cuz i thought it would seem 2 clingy rite but turns out she was in the hospital..... then i get a text later that nite and she was mad at me sayin that now she knows the real sayin that idc bout her but i care so much bout this girl she doesnt even know how much..... but ever since that i havent talked to her since.... idk wat to do..... i tried textin her callin but she wont answer.... WHAT SHOULD I DO!!!!
2007-03-26 14:32:48 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i don't think it's such a good idea to text and email her too many times. girls are a git weird. if you go over board, she may think that you are turning into some crazed person and she may in fact decide based on that not to talk to you again.
say if you had made it to the hospital, i assume that you would have taken balloons, flowers, a card? if you know her address. don't take it, send it to her. all three things. don't send funeral flowers, send her pretty roses like 11 in pink or yellow or orange, and one in red. tell her in the card what you just said to us. also tell her that you are terribly sorry that the one time that she needed you most, you second guessed yourself. she needs to know as well that if she doesn't want to talk to you again, you will understand. but that you wanted her to know a) that you are sorry; b) that you hope she is feeling better; c) that you are there for her regardless of how mad she may be; and d) you are going crazy without her.
and after that, you leave it all to her. she will get the point if she really likes you. she is just mad about you not showing up because she became used to you. she is not going to stop liking you overnight for this. if you send those gifts to her, it will melt her. cause she will know that her guy is back.
if she doesn't respond to that, then she may not have felt the way you do, but don't bother her anymore after that.
that is how i want a guy in this situation to behave, in order to make up.
2007-03-26 14:51:58 · answer #1 · answered by la21unica 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think of this woman is kinda flirty and he or she isn't so involved in you. because of the fact if she is, she does not flirt or confer with different guy extraordinarily if she's with you. And if she particularly likes you, she'll coach a lot affection to you. If the undertaking is with you, I advise, possibly on the grounds which you're too boring or no exhilaration in any respect, or whenever you too are jointly, possibly you talk or do an identical factor everyday. enable me inform you this, you ought to marvel her everyday, make some new stuffs to make her experience particular, that way, she'll be happy and could concentration her interest to you.
2016-10-20 00:24:00 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is still at the hospital go visit her. if she is not try ti see her in person and explain and i would deffenetly tell her how much you care for her and that you were just holding yourself back so you seem too clingy. She has to forgive you for that and you will defenetly get points for coming out of the closet.
If she dont and just becumeshardheaded, move on she just wants attention.
2007-03-26 14:50:38 · answer #3 · answered by SanuRa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her, write her a letter telling her how much you care and that you didn't text because of the reason you state above, you thought if you did it would perhaps drive her away. Good Luck
2007-03-26 14:37:50 · answer #4 · answered by decrepid1958 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. she rlly likes you.
2. she felt you didnt care about her enough.
3. she was in the hospital.
4. tell her you like her.
5. buy her some chocolates.
6. tell her your sorry...
7. tell her the truth... that you didnt wanna seem desperate or w.e.
8. she'll love you forever.
9. hope this helped.
2007-03-26 14:52:49 · answer #5 · answered by JayJay <3 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Call her.
If she doesn't answer - Call again.
Keep calling until she does answer.
When she does answer, don't let her say a single word. Just tell her why you didn't call her (you didn't want to seem clingy) and that you really do care about her. If she doesn't believe you, go visit her.
MAKE HER REALIZE THAT YOU REALLY DO CARE!!!
2007-03-26 14:36:57 · answer #6 · answered by semper_fi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U NEED TO GO TO THE HOSPITAL AND TELL HER HOW U FEEL AND TELL HER NO MATTER WHAT THAT U WILL ALWAYS LOVE HAER AND THAT U WANT U GUYS TO BE TOGETHER FOR AS LONG AS U CAN AND JUST BE YOUR SELF BUT U NEED TO FIND A WAY TO GET TO WERE EVER SHE IS AND TELL HER A.S.A.P
2007-03-26 14:40:50 · answer #7 · answered by BRIA A.K.A BLACKBUTTERFLY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write her an email. If she doesn't respond, move on to the next one. Don't go all crazy and email her everyday, just leave it alone after the email. If she wants you she'll respond.
2007-03-26 14:38:33 · answer #8 · answered by nhlyyz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave like 100 missed calls on her phone and text her for ever saying how much you love her and eventually she will pick up
2007-03-26 14:37:06 · answer #9 · answered by Kostya G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u'r not going out and she got that upset, sounds like she's likes u a lot too. send her some flowers, personally!
then she'll giv u a chance to explain.
2007-03-26 14:42:15 · answer #10 · answered by cher 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋