and he likes me back but i cant tell my boy friend, i don`t want to hurd his feelings
2007-03-26 14:26:54 · 11 answers · asked by rojakusabi7868 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Walk away from both of them
2007-03-26 14:30:06 · answer #1 · answered by kristen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a tough area to go into. I've "dated" one of my boyfriends best friend when we were broken up for a while. It's still hard for us all to hang out because he wonders if i'd want to be with him again. To this day they really don't talk anymore and it's been a year. However if your not in a real serious relationship with your boyfriend now and you can feel it's not working and you have true feelings for his friend you need to follow your heart. Talk to his friend and ask what he thinks you should to do handle the situation since he knows your bf well too.
2007-03-26 21:32:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you still love your BF ? If not or if your feelings for him are dwindling, let him know. In fairness, he deserves to be told. At this point, it is probably too late for "I don't want to hurt him..." becuase it is to that point that another man has captured your heart. It would hurt him more if he found out thru a third party so just be upfront with him and break it to him. Good luck.
2007-03-26 21:34:01 · answer #3 · answered by Fermin M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with your boyfriend. It is not fair to him and for you to be stringing him along. You should break up with him immediately. You are going to hurt him more the longer you dont come out clean with him. The sooner you do it the better for everyone involve.
2007-03-26 21:31:40 · answer #4 · answered by W j 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to tell your bf! It'll hurt his feelings more if you guys do stuff behind his back
But before you do, make sure those feelings are real. You don't want to end up doing anything irrational.
2007-03-26 21:31:49 · answer #5 · answered by Queen Mary 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to think hard, because you can really hurt your boyfriend, and maybe even ruin his friendship. If you care for you bf stay with him, but if you think that there is nothing left, go for it, but think really hard about it
2007-03-26 21:59:58 · answer #6 · answered by CEZ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you need to break up with your bf. Then you should just leave those guys alone. Its not good to get involved because you will break their friendship and they will blame you for it.
2007-03-26 21:31:58 · answer #7 · answered by =P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uh oh! bad situation to be in, but i say to just go with your feeling and your gut, just as long you know you made the right decision and no body gets deeply hurt by it.
good luck
2007-03-26 21:31:41 · answer #8 · answered by SugaLova 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um brake up with ur bf and go out with his friend, guys dont usually care if friends go out with exxes
2007-03-26 21:30:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do what you like. but put yourself in your boyfriends shoes. how would you feel if he did that to you
2007-03-26 21:30:39 · answer #10 · answered by drea D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋