2007-03-26 14:23:26 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
well damn i think you shouldve told him 24 years ago. but now he is a grown man so u can tell him straight up.
2007-03-26 14:26:51 · answer #1 · answered by Jordan M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you have to tell him now? If you were going to tell him, you should have always let him know it, from the earliest time, so it wouldn't be a shock and destroy his whole world! If you just throw it out there now, he's going to be VERY angry with you for keeping it a secret all his life, and he's going to start wondering what else you haven't told him and WHO he really is, what happened to his natural parents, what the circumstances were of his adoption, if he has brothers and sisters etc etc. If i were you i'd think about it, before you tell him.
2007-03-26 14:31:50 · answer #2 · answered by JEANNE B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, you waited a long time to tell him, didn’t you? There’s not going to be an easy way to do it. If he has no clue, it’s going to be a bombshell. Just tell the truth, I guess, and practice what you're going to say first. Good luck.
2007-03-26 14:28:26 · answer #3 · answered by kp 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you have to ask yourself, why tell him now?? Is something going on in his life that he absolutely needs to know, like a medical problem. Don't destroy his world, just to make yourself feel better.
2007-03-26 18:45:53 · answer #4 · answered by knhglassey@sbcglobal.net 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SIT HIM DOWN AND SAY "SON LOOK WE HAVE BEEN HROUGH ALOT AND I HAVE SOMETHING VERY IMPORTANT TO TELL U ,NOW I KNOW U WILL BE MAD BUT I JUST DIDN'T KNOW HOW TO TELL U ALL THESE YEARS THA YOUR ADOPTED''
2007-03-26 14:28:23 · answer #5 · answered by BRIA A.K.A BLACKBUTTERFLY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have done this about 23 years ago.
2007-03-26 15:12:11 · answer #6 · answered by mimegamy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't, unless you have to
2007-03-26 14:27:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋