my mom has this boyfriend...and he's really nice...but there is just something about him that makes me mad...like i hate it when he comes over...but it's also a good thing when he does come over...cause then my mom will leave me alone...but he always talks to me and i don't want my mom and him to go out...so...do i tell her?
2007-03-26 14:20:12 · 5 answers · asked by Ava D 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well, you said your mother "bothers you". Do you have the type of relationship where you can just talk to her and say something like "Hey Mom, I need to talk to you about your bf" ?
Try talking to her...If you know you can't or just can't see yourself saying it to her face like that, wait. See what kind of relationship they're having. If it's turning serious, see if you can get to know this guy better ("is he really good enough for your mom? is he good enough for you?")
Most of all, trust your instincts...they always win out.
2007-03-26 14:26:46 · answer #1 · answered by A Pure Test 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk with your mom. What exactly is it that rubs you the wrong way about this guy? Is he a jerk to your mom? Does he have a good job? Is he serious about your mom or just around for a good time? Is he respectful and kind? These are things to think about. If you can admit that he is truly a nice person, then maybe deep down you are afraid of losing your mom's attention (however you do mention he keeps your mom from bugging you). I'm just a little confused. I was a stepmother for 7 years. In the beginning my 12-year-old stepdaughter hated when I'd come around, but later she admitted it was only because she thought I was taking her dad away from her. Eventually we became good friends and still are to this day (even though her father and I are now divorced). Like I said, if he is a good guy all in all, give him a chance. If he's an unemployed loser pig, express your concern to your mom. Good luck!
2007-03-26 21:32:50 · answer #2 · answered by paddington_ck 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes your mom should always chose her daughter over any boyfriend.....just talk to her and tell her he makes u feal uncomfterble!!
2007-03-26 21:28:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where is your father? When did your mom and your dad break up??
2007-03-26 21:27:57 · answer #4 · answered by -Dr. D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now let me see.You don't want him to come over and you don't want him to leave. Now what do you really want.
2007-03-26 21:30:02 · answer #5 · answered by ♥ Mel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋