how do you hint to someone that theyre too boring?

Question

my boyfriend is so boring.
i mean, i love him to death,
but he does do anything!
i dont want him all over me,
but a little attention and outgoingness would be nice.
what do i say to hint at him to be more...talkative!?

Answer 1

just tell him!

Answer 2

Here is what the Bible says about men and women:

Proverbs 30:18,19
There are three things that are too amazing for me, four that I do not understand: the way of an eagle in the sky, the way of a snake on a rock, the way of a ship on the high seas, and the way of a man with a maiden.

Try going to see the eagles at the nature reserve outside Hobart in Tasmania, or going for a bush walk (with a stick to hit the ground with and hiking boots) or going on an ocean cruise!

Kerry

Answer 3

i have the same problem i can be in the house all day with my partner and never say a word. he doesnt see things or feel things the same as me,,,,we used to b ok when there was just us and we did things together,,,i think you need to get away from the four walls, walks in the park , a drink if your lucky enough that yours will go to the pub,,,maybeits just that you love him being there cos your use tohim....i wondering what there is to love anymore and is this how im going to grow old....i hope you find an interest or he at least wants to try...try a night in atent away from everyone used to be fun and we spent hours playing cards and just talking ....i havent got the answer but you sure made me feel normal and theres not only me sat bored,,cheers

Answer 4

You should yawn and "accidentally" drop your fork, spoon or knife under the table and start texting or go to the bath room and call your friends who have boyfreinds or girlfriends and have them come where ever you are and have them run into you guys and have them sit down with you so you dont get bored

Answer 5

yawn and say i cant hardly keep my eyes open when u start talking. and u can just act distratrated (which wont b 2 hard 2 do) and try 2 change the subject

Answer 6

The best way is to be honest... or if you wnat to talk to him without saying his boring... talk about his interests... his mouth might open up and blurt a lot of word :D

Answer 7

Dudes don't like to talk. If he found something that he enjoyed talking about, you would probably find it boring. He might want to talk about cars, guns, Star Wars, or something.

You might want to find subtle ways of rewarding him each time he speaks or elaborates on something.

Answer 8

Just give a yawn and say excuse me dear I am going to take a nap.

Answer 9

tell him u dont like someone say a girl u know cas she is very boring as she doesnt talk much...that way he might realize what mistake he is doing?

Answer 10

would you want to be told you're too... anything? I wouldn't. But if my guy asked me nicely if I would give him some attention, then I wouldn't be insulted. Ask for what you want. Don't insult by calling names.

Answer 11

umm just mabe he needs to gett to no you better or mabe he is just shy sometimes its had to talk for some people :) because they might be scared that they will say the wrong thing.. umm mabe you should ask him about it slowly like take your time ..