Should I break up with my boyfriend?
I've been dating this guy for almost two years, and when we started out we were perfect. It was amazing, he is amazing. He carries my stuff, always tells me how undeserving he is, will carry my purse, anything ANYTHING i want him too. Even more so, he is a chirstian and so am I, so there not that tension, but nowadays he is just soooo cl ingy! I DO NOT want children, or marrige unill MUCH later. But he talks about it all the time,( scary!) he wants to know at all times where I am, who I am with. HE filps out if I even look in the genral diretion of another male, he actually gets mad when I hang out with my friends, and tries to desquise it as something else, my friend think im crazy. He is perfect in every way, except all these and he is driving me NUTS! I know he cannot be happy with me running all over him like that, but he gets mad if I dont mommy him? And he picks fights everyday, he will go as far as make up entire converstaions, I cant be happy talking to him anymore because ?
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Everytime we t alk all he wants to do is mop, pout like a three year old ( Im series, he pouts in public, sooooo emarassing, a toddler that throws tantrums bad, a boyfriend????????) Or fight about something, an dlike I said he has even made up entire conversation to have something to fight about, I dont know why I am even on the phone, he does just fine by himself. And I knowhe loves me but thats whats making this so hard, he is driving me awaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa...
2007-03-26 14:06:33 · 14 answers · asked by fenderfan823 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Everytime we t alk all he wants to do is mop, pout like a three year old ( Im series, he pouts in public, sooooo emarassing, a toddler that throws tantrums bad, a boyfriend????????) Or fight about something, an dlike I said he has even made up entire conversation to have something to fight about, I dont know why I am even on the phone, he does just fine by himself. And I knowhe loves me but thats whats making this so hard, he is driving me awaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa...
Sorry I posted this again, didnt really get alot of answers the first time. HELP! And I have talked to him about this, its just egtting worse. But I ....gee so many memories...
2007-03-26 14:07:51 · update #1
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2007-03-27 00:00:13 · update #2
If he is serious about wanting a marriage and you do not, you should let him go to pursue a woman who is ready for a commitment now. It's best for you and your boyfriend to get exactly what you want out of the relationship. Have you tried telling him how you feel? The number 1 factor in any relationship is communication. Maybe he feels he is losing you and is panicking? Before you do anything, have a talk to see where you are at. If you are not at the same crossroad, I would take a different path and let him go to pursue his as well.
2007-03-26 14:11:07 · answer #1 · answered by caromelheart 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Rangers ends quiet?! Have you even been to each ends? And it surely is dependent upon what staff you aid! And someway I do not believe the Celtic finish might be making a song and dancing! Not for lengthy besides!
2016-09-05 17:07:54 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sister, i guess it is not perfect after all. I can tell he is driving you mad and away. I would preferably try to work it out before throwing away a relationship of 2 years. Talk to him seriously about it or seek counsel at the church. Turn to the Lord.
2007-03-26 14:23:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah i think you should end it. You both need to see what its like without each other. It doesn't sound like your happy with the relationship and he is way to clingy. The only way ic to fix it is to break it off and be serious about it, bc he's clingy. If your not serious about it then he won't learn his lesson and become a better person. So all in all its for his own good.
2007-03-26 14:14:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
let me first say this: i know a couple that, he was very understanding , gave her her space, not controlling in any way shape or form. Perfect husband you may say! right? wrong! she ended up with three bf while living w/her husband. she went so far that one of her bf visited her home in one Sunday morning, and the two of them acted like nobody was present in the room....they were so much into each other, than her husb and me (his friend) were like invisible....(she was sitting on his lap) laughing and having fun....her husb was like a lion in a cage.........they ended up in divorce finally. a friendly one i may say.....and another thing...one of her bf had threatened her to kill her if she cheats on him......well, this story doesn't have anything to do with you/your story. but, if you are Christian you know that God loves us with jealousy.. therefore love and jealousy come together as a package.....(he wants to know at all times where I am, who I am with. HE filps out if I even look in the genral diretion of another male).....(he actually gets mad when I hang out with my friends) you didn't specify if your friends are m or f.......I do believe that he loves you!!.....if you do not love him, leave him alone!! break-up with him asap.....you shouldn't be with him just because he loves you.
--------Sa-Anne-------she never said she loves him.
2007-03-26 17:14:06 · answer #5 · answered by schuschtermat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
time to move on. you say he's perfect in every way "EXCEPT these" that right there should give you your answer. i think that you do want to end it and are just unsure of how or what other people will think. the fact that you are questioning the relationship and do have problems with some of his personality traits just verifies he is not the one for you. plus you two do not seem to be insync with your life's goals and plans. i can't tell you what to do, but do have to say: if you're questioning him to this degree, he is not the one for you
2007-03-26 14:14:58 · answer #6 · answered by rorybird42 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to evaluate your relationship. Do you want out because he is too childish and possessive? Do you wan to remain in this because he does love you and you love him? But like I believe in, love is never enough in any relationship. It must be some mental torture you going through. But the decision lies with you in the end. If you think this behavior is changable, then work at it, talk to him. But if this is who he is, this is his character from the start, it's up to you to know if you can stand it.
2007-03-26 14:18:13 · answer #7 · answered by Sa-Anne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Clingy males are usually a problem when they say they are undeserving, let him know that he is deserving and that you will only love him while you two are going out. If he gets so clingy that he is basicly inside your skin with you. Thats when you break it off.
2007-03-26 14:11:50 · answer #8 · answered by Ne&Tu 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you think he is perfect, then you should talk to him about this before breaking up with him. just tell him that you don't like the way he is acting. he should understand.
2007-03-27 08:20:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should break up with him, this guy can be dangerous after you married to him, He could be act abusive against you if you go out meeting friends and when you come home, he'll beat you, can be abusive husband
2007-03-26 14:13:24 · answer #10 · answered by jane 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋