break up with my boyfriend. He hits me everyonce ina while, He does say he is just flirting, hes alway got an attitude, I like him alot, I am really confused, I think I love him, and if I should breakup with him how would I do it. Ohh, yeah, and he also is so ashamed by he will not openly go out with me, he wants it to be kept a secret. I also cvaught him going out with another girl, he said he would not do it anymore, Please help!
2007-03-26 13:53:30 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
GIRL!! you need to leave this sorry excuse of a man.. When Im with someone.. i want to show my queen to the rest of the world.. He wants to keep you hidden and insecure about yourself because he wants to control you, while he enjoys other women as well..
GET OUT NOW!!
2007-03-26 13:58:29 · answer #1 · answered by -Dr. D 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should not even be questioning this. This guy is obviously not giving you his all. And if he hits you, and you feel that it is violent at all, this should be and automatic out in the game. Someone who cares about you doesn't do that. And if you've caught him going out with another girl, and he's keeping his relationship with you on the low, then he apparently does not have intentions of staying faithful, and someone you love should not do that to you. If you love someone, you deserve have an exclusive relationship. Sorry girl, but as much as it sucks, this loser's got to go.
2007-03-26 20:59:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
naw i think yall should get married n have kids,that way he can hit u all day n never let u out the house,if ur lucky he may even kill u.................................................................DUHHH! ofcourse u should break it off with him,as much as it may hurt becuz u luv him u gotta luv urself first.think bout it how can u luv sum 1 if u can luv urself.u know i once hear dthat a man can make u feel high so high it make u smile ALL the time,but a man can also make u feel low so low u wonder whether u could ever rise form dat level,but mami if u reach dat level its not worth it cuz if u dont have the strenght to luv urself n get up 4m dat place wat makes u think u got the strenght to luv him?u know u dont gott sugar coat it n u dont gotta be a ***** to him once u tell him but u need to tell him that its over.
2007-03-26 21:37:04 · answer #3 · answered by mizzmiami 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The real question is: Why are you wasting time with this guy? As for how to break up with him, you should go to your local police station and discuss this with the police. I would suggest asking your male relatives to deal with this lowlife, but too many men think that is too "old-fashioned."
2007-03-26 21:06:02 · answer #4 · answered by ajsaxton 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should break up with this guy.. love isn't being abused.. its being with a person who will say you look so pretty wen ur eyeliner is down ur cheeks from all the crying or if u have sum drool from wen u barley woke up. he wont kare if people know you 2 are together.
2007-03-26 21:04:02 · answer #5 · answered by babygurlakatiny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry you really need to ask??? --- dump him as soon as possible --- the raise your standards and find someone who will treat you as a lady --- dont be gentle just delete all his contact numbers etc after you send him an sms saying get lost never talk to me again ---- best wishes to you
2007-03-26 21:00:48 · answer #6 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't deserve a second chance...he kinda sounds like a jerk...and if he really likes you then he wouldn't be afraid to tell people that you are HIS girlfriend and that he loves you...
2007-03-26 20:59:40 · answer #7 · answered by Ava D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dumpp his butt.. sounds like a jerk.. okay if you are only going out and he is doing all this.. what do you think he will do when you guys some day get married.. end it now before you get more in love!
2007-03-26 20:58:32 · answer #8 · answered by nora456a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BREAK UP WITH HIM!!! THAT IS ABUSE! YOU DESERVE SOMEONE MUCH BETTER THAN HIM!
2007-03-26 20:59:07 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋