So I've been dating this guy now for almost 2 months. Well, we at this point we are dating, as in we are not seeing anyone else. My problem is that I haven't been in a relationship in a while and have never actually been in a serious relationship, which is the direction that this one seems to be headed. My problem is that this guy has not yet asked me to be his girlfriend. I know he thinks of me as his girl, and we are exclusive. I know that at my age, title really shouldn't be much of an issue. You should just kind of know. But at the same time, I want to know if I am actually his 'girlfriend.' It's just that I want to be able to say I have a boyfriend, not just that I am seeing someone. If he's not going to just come out and ask me, how do I know when we've reached this point?? Should I ask him?? What are some ways of bringing it up to him, without making it seem as if I'm rushing something or without making him feel uncomfortable? I just need some tips and advice!!
2007-03-26 13:51:46 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Congratulations on meeting this special someone!! Two months is not that long, although it may seem like it! :-) Men are often not that forthcoming in what they are thinking. It is very possible that he has totally assumed that you know you are his one and only! I think it would be wise just to continue dating him for awhile with no mention of this. When you are out with friends, the twinkle in your eyes and your obvious affection, will let them know that this is someone very special. Keep the mystery!!! There will come a time when it will just happen naturally. You'll see. :-)
2007-03-26 14:07:28 · answer #1 · answered by Eve 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, that was me last year. I am still with that guy with 'no title.' I asked him after 3 months, of where we are in the relationship, and he told me that he didn't want anything serious at that point in time. There are so much more important things in a relationship than just a title, and if you are both happy, then don't push for an answer. Guys, not all but in general, are commitment-phobes, and don't like titles until they are completely sure. Give him time, I am sure the ultimate answer you are looking for will come naturally. 2 months is very short. The best relationships usually come when you don't jump into it too quickly ;)
2007-03-26 21:12:28 · answer #2 · answered by ohsoconfused 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask him "are we a really good friends?"
2007-03-26 20:56:32 · answer #3 · answered by jane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋