I do not see the point of love. I have never wanted to and I fear love. I try my best to avoid it and block every attempt of a girl trying to make a fool out of me and try to make me fall in love. I will not love someone because I don't give up to other people. Love would be like a war to me. I would fight the person trying to get to me, and I would win. Everything is a war to me. I despise and fear love. I could not ever do anything for anyone else, and I have never EVER told anyone I love them, not even my parents. My head would explode from rage if someone said they loved me. I don't want anyone to love me. If I did happen to get a girl, I would never tell her I love her. If she told me she loved me, I would punch her. My goal is not to love someone, it's to win wars. I have never even tried love, but I hate it anyway. I hate it because I am goofy looking and I gave up years ago trying to find a girl because I found out how goofy love is and I knew everyone would laugh at me if I s
2007-03-26 13:48:55 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
aid how I was in love. I am a tough warrior, and women come last on my list. I also want to deprive myself of rewarding myself with anything. I think I might hate women, but I am not gay. I just don't like anyone.
2007-03-26 13:49:15 · update #1
I don't deserve love if it is that great and I don't care if I die alone.
2007-03-26 14:04:05 · update #2
I am joining the military and I will die fighting. I will die alone, and I don't care.
2007-03-26 14:07:47 · update #3
ah, love. love is supposed to be foolish. you shouldnt fear it . you should embrace it. besides. if anyone wanted to love you, it would probably be a tomboy. or a really really tough girl who people think is really a dude. yeah. wierd.
2007-03-26 13:51:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you're such a warrior, why would you be so afraid to pursue something as much as love?
Love is the biggest & most difficultest obstacle in life & you're too afraid to apprehend it? What a shame.
With attitudes like that, this is how people die lonely & never know what it's like to have true feelings for someone. That's just ridiculous.
Take it like a man, stop caring so much about looking like an idiot & find some happiness. Nobody said love was easy. Love is what you make it, ya know.
2007-03-26 21:01:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh my God! You sound like a potential rapist: a hater of all women!
Sounds to me like you have been hurt in the past by loving a girl and have never fully recovered from your emotional ordeal, is that right?
You need to grow up and you need to grow up fast little buddy, do you hear?
You seem so emotionally immature; it's scary to me and to probably everyone who comes into close contact with you.
Keep thinking that way and you will lead a very lonely and very sad existence!
And you will die alone, more than likely.
Good luck to you my man!
God help you!
2007-03-26 21:01:26 · answer #3 · answered by Devilish Angel 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You'd punch the girl that tells you she loves you?
I'm no doctor, but I am a know-it-all. I think you might benefit from some counseling.
Or...you may be the wisest man I've ever heard.
Psst: The opposite of love is apathy. Such harbored rage shows the capability of passion. Love and hate are both agonies...but one holds the promise of happiness.
Also...medication helps.
2007-03-26 20:56:39 · answer #4 · answered by majicatus 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
really, there is nothing greater than being in love and having that person feel the same or stronger about you. do not fear is or as you will die alone...but in your case sounds like it wouldnt matter much, to loose a lover is that worst thing that could ever happen though.
so to whoever said, "better to love and to loose than to never love at all," is pretty wrong I think
2007-03-26 20:55:18 · answer #5 · answered by J. K 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Falling in love is not a choice it happens without consent. You just haven't found the right girl but when you have you will want to scream from the mountain tops how you love her and you won't care who hears you.
2007-03-26 20:53:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry for you. I don't think you understand what love is. Love is giving and excepting. Love is something that just happens one day when you are not looking. To love someone totally is unconditional love. You forgive them for anything they do because you cannot help it. Their touch makes you get chills down your back. You think of them continuously whether you want to or not. You want to do things to please them. To see them walk in the room just gives you a rush inside, instant smile. There is someone out there for you. Don't even worry about your looks. I bet there is someone in this world that is funnier looking than you. You are a unique individual, be proud, smile and love not hate.
2007-03-26 20:57:40 · answer #7 · answered by Alone again 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Ummmmmm, you have issues,,, if you wanna win a war, why don't you go to war in Iraq, also your being so negative, your to inpatient for love, I know your not gay, but you seem like it. You really need to see a Psychiatrist ..good luck..!!
2007-03-26 20:58:16 · answer #8 · answered by Diana 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why do People Fall in Love?
No one wants to be alone in this crazy world. If its dating, relations, or friendship, its a form of love.
Now for your situation, you seem to be in a vortex of your own emotions and fear of being lied to. So no matter what you do in life, you're going to get hurt physically or Mentally. Just buckle yourself in for a hell-of-a ride when it happens.
2007-03-26 20:54:29 · answer #9 · answered by Ne&Tu 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
people fall in love becuz of emotional reasons,like happiness,if ur wife or husband is doing every thing right nothing wrong and is providing very well and u hav feelings for him than that is a good relationship.basically u r in love.
2007-03-26 20:55:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋