my b.f wants to take it to the next level but i dont hink that im ready what should i do?
2007-03-26 13:40:10 · 16 answers · asked by lafonda c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you have to ask yourself if you are ready, chances are you are not! that being said, you need to ask yourself why you are having doubts. do you question his sincerity? are you having trust issues? or is it that maybe you still want to see what else is out there? just take a step or two back and evaluate your situation. your age and circumstances also play a big part in your decision. just be patient and let things go where they will and good luck!
2007-03-26 13:49:21 · answer #1 · answered by some guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't think you are ready, you need time. If he cares about you, he will give you that time.
Never let yourself feel pressured into anything you aren't comfortable with. The only thing you have control over in this life is your decisions. Embrace that.
2007-03-26 13:44:36 · answer #2 · answered by majicatus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how old you are hun. If you are not ready...don't do it. If he tries to force you then that's that...he's not worth your time. I am 17 and my ex bf wanted the same thing and got mad every time I refused...finally I knew it was enough. Think for yourself. If you think you are ready...physically and especially emotionally...allright. But once again...don't let him push you into it. Hope this helps,
~*V*~
2007-03-26 13:43:59 · answer #3 · answered by Veronica K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then don't go and tell him that ur not read and if really loves or whatever u then he will respect that but if doesn't then there is a problem.
Make sure to stand ur ground when u tell him and if he ask why and u say cuzz ur not ready that is a find answer u don't need to explain ur self anymore then that
2007-03-26 13:44:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you question your "readiness," if you will, then you're def not ready. if he keeps pushing the issue, drop him. You dont need a guy like that. Good luck, hun!
2007-03-26 13:48:26 · answer #5 · answered by Fashionista* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say the same thing as the last guy. If he likes you, truely, then he'll wait until you're ready.
2007-03-26 13:44:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I want to tell you something that you need to realize...
YOU have the power over YOUR own actions...
NEVER let a man take from you what YOU dont want to give up....
Do it when YOU want to... NOT when HE wants too...
cause my dear friend, you never want to regret anything later in life.
2007-03-26 13:44:31 · answer #7 · answered by -Dr. D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont do anything that you arent ready for. If her truly cares for you then he will wait.
2007-03-26 13:42:49 · answer #8 · answered by tchem75 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
the best advice i can give you is that if you are in doubt then DON'T. and if this guy is at all decent then he will not pressure you and wait until you are ready.
2007-03-26 13:44:33 · answer #9 · answered by ndbt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him about it and dont let him influence your thinking. take what he thinksin but theink for yourself. if your still not ready, then tell him. if he wants to be with you he will understand.
2007-03-26 13:44:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋