my dad is set in his ways nd he says i cant date until i'm 18. i am 16, nd the boy i want 2 date is also 1. my dad knows the boy bc he is my bestfriend, and ive grown up with him. my mom already calls him my boyfriend but my dad is in denial. we hav all spoken about it as in we i mean the boy nd his mom nd me nd my parents....but my dad was the onli 1 dat sed no, 18...
2007-03-26 13:36:19 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i have a pretty good relationship with my dad nd i want him 2 approve nd b okay with it, i dnt like doin things behind my parents back
2007-03-26 13:39:28 · update #1
Learn to package the deal. use the terms that DAD can handle.
Do not say hey dad i want to date so and so. He is your friend , Say hey dad can i hang with?? we are going to?
Do not even give the impression that you are dating, just hanging out and having fun.
Remember when you tell dad you are going on a date he is think about what he did to your mom when he dated her., and Guss what he does not want to think of that with you.
Learn this lesson or you may be one of these people working for a title and a corner office verse big bucks.
2007-03-26 13:43:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
quicker or later you will ought to handle it. you should the two tell your dad now and handle it now on a similar time as the courting continues to be new. or you should attend it out and spot if those beans get spilled via your brother. And handle it later, once you have been with your boyfriend longer, and doubtless have extra thoughts for him. actual i might tel your dad, so the undertaking would be long gone and all would be delt with. maybe you could think of of what to assert and the thank you to assert it. maybe, start up off with, " dad i recognize you advised me that this 365 days is learn and no boys. yet dad i prefer us to have a user-friendly courting the place i will come to you and inform you each little thing. And ask you questions and request your suggestion. maximum critically i would be able to return to you as quickly as I can come to you whilst i'm in difficulty or as quickly as I purely prefer a chum to talk to. See whathe says! wish for the excellent and then wreck it to him. purely tell him you prefer to talk to this boy at college on account which you like him. verify you ingredient out all the stable issues approximately this boy =) and how he's purely a chum! hehe I choose you the excellent in all of this
2016-12-15 09:36:55 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, I think you should go ahead and go out with him. I think it's great that your families know each other. I think once he sees that you are being treated well, he won't be so against it. Father will always be protective. I'm 23 and my Dad is still protective (I'm engaged) Your Dad probably thinks ahead and thinks this guy will hurt you and break your heart, and he doesn't want to see you get hurt.
Maybe if he sees that your mom trusts you and your boyfriend, he will relax a bit as well. :)
Hope it goes well!
2007-03-26 13:42:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A good idea would be to ask your mom to talk to your father about it. If she does not have a problem with it your father can be pursuaded by her. Not to mention it's allways good to point out the facts that you just pointed out to me. You are 16 and can think on your own. You have grown up with this boy and your whole family knows him and likes him. Your father needs to get over his denial. :-)
2007-03-26 13:41:20 · answer #4 · answered by Veronica K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have a job and a place of your own?Parents can trust their teenagers,, but i warn them NOT to trust your teenage hormones because it leads you to do things youd like to do but know you shouldnt do whether you meant to or not.Your dad wants you to be thru with your education , and be able to support yourself BEFORE you start dating, the reason being dating is to find a mate for life.You arent ready for marriage yet and cannot support yourself yet if you were to marry and get pregnant and your husband die or leave you.Be patient.All good things come to those who wait and misery comes to those who wont wait.
2007-03-26 13:42:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hope you mean that the boy u want to date is also 16 not "1". lol.
i have the same problem and my dad allowed it in a group setting.
and then i proved to him that i was mature enough to go out on a date and he allowed me too.
so yah tri that.
good luck!
2007-03-26 13:40:30 · answer #6 · answered by SUNBURST ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let Dad be left behind. Invite him to be the chaperon.
2007-03-26 13:39:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just say that im growing up and along with that comes boys and ask if you can date and say that you would have him approve
2007-03-26 13:40:05 · answer #8 · answered by brittanei. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him for spelling lessions, BC is not a word.
2007-03-26 13:40:48 · answer #9 · answered by Ne&Tu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
date him behind your dads back
2007-03-26 13:43:23 · answer #10 · answered by B rabit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋