I like this one guy a lot. He's cute and seems funny. I like funny guys but I also like his friend. I'm not sure if they like me but I want at least one of them to ask me out. I'm really shy and don't talk to them ever. Please respond. This is major.
2007-03-26 13:25:09 · 11 answers · asked by purplediamond_10 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First, decide which one you want. Write down all the positive things about each guy and rate them like that. If either one makes your heart or body feel special......go for him.
If you still can't decide, flip a coin. Heads will be the 1st guy, tails, his friend. Hold your hand over the coin and don't look at it. Think about which one you hope it is and go with that.....regardless of if it is heads or tails.
Secondly, my advice which seems so easy, but it is so hard....is just ask him out. Don't say "hey you wanna go out on a date with me?" Be subtle. Talk about going to the movies....how much you like it...or something else you have in common. While you're on the subject, slip in.....Hey, we should go check out a movie together! Something like that.
In this life, you have to take risks in order to get what you want. What is the worst that could happen....he would say no? So what? That's not the end of the world. If he says no, then don't worry about it....and go for someone else you like.....there are billions of guys in the world. On the other hand....he could say yes!
Guys are just as shy as girls, but someone always has to make the first step. Good luck!
2007-03-26 13:35:07 · answer #1 · answered by habsfan3375 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, seems like you have 2 crushes lol but try 2 take it easy. You can't have 2 guys at once. You should sit back, relax & think about the things u like most about each 1 of them and make a choice. If that's done, then have a friend go up 2 him and ask him if he likes u or sth. if you can't yourself or get ahold of his number/e-mail & try talking 2 him from there on. Tell him later on, who you are and such. If it doesn't work out, don't sweat it, there are more guys out there & there's no hurry so have fun w/just being you.
2007-03-26 13:30:50 · answer #2 · answered by ginie_in_a_bottle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, so you like these guys, but dont talk to them, yet you want them to ask you out... Are you actually on the same planet as us..If they havent yet asked you out yet, surely they dont fancy you... So is his friend funny too...???? Think you might try to get over your shyness and give either of them a clue as to how you feel..
2007-03-26 13:33:50 · answer #3 · answered by pop c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first of all you need to become friends with them, or you have no shot of ever getting either one to ask u out. A good bold move to make is to ask the one with the biggest package to go to the next dance with you. Your gonna have to open your mouth, one way or another.
2007-03-26 13:32:38 · answer #4 · answered by Dr. Sarcastro 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, well, i think that u should talk to them mor. Flirt. Show a little cleavage, mini skirt or watever will get their attention. U hav to come out of ur shyness tho. If want anymor help or advice, email me at pals4ev@yahoo.com
2007-03-26 13:29:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im not sure if ul like my answer but get one of them to spy on one for u and the other on the other therefore if someone likes u u will know and ull be around to talk to them
(get over being shy)
2007-03-26 13:30:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyone has to face their fears...it's time to fight that fear and start talking to them. if you want them to ask you out they have to know you. they have to feel like they're on common ground with you. don't make something up either...they can tell. you just have to be real with them. they like the real deal and nothing fake. be strong and talk
2007-03-26 13:32:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it sounds like you need to spice yourself up lil bit you don't got to change all the way just a way for them to notice you and make sure you are comfortable with it just try to do stuff they like you know.
2007-03-26 13:32:01 · answer #8 · answered by Nirra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
c which 1 u have more in common with. just make sure niether of them have a g/f & that they ain't gay. what's his friend like. follow ur heart.
2007-03-26 13:28:56 · answer #9 · answered by army brat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys love playful girls.. be flirty and playful and be goofy to break the ice and somethings bound to happen.
2007-03-26 13:28:49 · answer #10 · answered by mary m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋