Im a very attractive girl,i go the gym and have a curvy,yet skinny body. i have guys all over me every where i go... However, my boyfriend always looks at other girls who are skinny and somewhat attractive...it really offends me! he is a gorgeous guy and sometimes girls flirt with him in front of me!I hate that!Girls:Why do you do it?Why dont we respect each other?? So he always looks at other girls...i told him i hate it,but he thinks im just being paranoic... whats his problem?? i know he loves me a lot,he really shows it....but that thing is killing me....he gives extra looks to very skinny girls.....does he want me to get even skinnier?im 125 and 90-60-90 (european). or maybe he is just a dog and likes to look at all attractive females....which????
2007-03-26 13:23:05 · 19 answers · asked by Lora W 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is 30.....we live together...hes been always checking out other girls....its been a year last month....
2007-03-26 13:52:24 · update #1
get rid of him you can do better you said it yourself
2007-03-26 13:28:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
You are going nuts lol. But i understand it does piss you off, same with any other girls. I think its just natural for everyone to always check out attractive people, anyone that just attracts our attention.... This goes same for women and men. We cant help it, its just part of human nature. Its not like we actually like the people we always check out. So please dont think that you are not good looking at all. And dont lose any more weight, you are perfect the way you are! We dont need anymore ugly anorexic girls.
However, your bf flirting with girls in front of you was extremely rude... You need to tell him that its disrespectful to you and you need him to stop that. A person who truely loves you will never flirt or think of any other girls, except for you. If he's just going to say you're paranoid, the dump this loser. If he knew that this issue bothers you a lot, he would make an effort to stop what he's doing.
This is exactly why hot guys are not the best bfs... they're players because they can attract girls with their looks. And they tend to flirt a lot.
2007-03-26 13:34:39 · answer #2 · answered by =P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl your situation has nothing to with your weight nothing ! Its just men in general love to look at women they are all visualizers believe me so it doesn't matter if they are fully clothed or less they will still look and they love I mean really love the attention they all get . other girls don't care if your mad because they love it too its an attention game and the game is who will crack first in public or private sounds to me you don't love the game so if i were you sis I be getting out of that relationship and get one so a man if you are lucky to find a man who is mature and respects you in public or private
remember women mature faster than men and like i said before its an attention game "Show and Tell" so don't go all anorexic because of him please! Hey and remember nothing wrong with complimenting the guys too.
2007-03-26 13:35:38 · answer #3 · answered by bustnloose_2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow. 125? your kidding me 125pounds! HOLY! ok, so let's get to the point. your boyfriend looks at skinny girls. ( curvy skinny girls like you? more prettier than girls skinny as a pole) so, if he says that your being paranoic, tell him: "you think I'm bneing paranoic? what about you? you have a girlfriend you don't go looking at other girls!" if he says something back at you, then I don't think he should deserve a girl like you. hope it helps.
~pingpong
2007-03-26 13:31:54 · answer #4 · answered by XeunacornX 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want a guy who looks at you and no one else, let this guy go and look for someone else. You don't say how old you are - nor him. But he is a guy. Apparently he is rather young. Young guys are always looking. And they love it when they are considered "gorgeous" and lots of females fawn all over them. If you want a mature relationship, look elsewhere. (And by the way, as for a mature relationship, look for someone at least 8 years older than you are). Let the "boys' be "boys"
2007-03-26 13:30:58 · answer #5 · answered by rare2findd 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's natural for your boyfriend to look at other girls.. don't you check out attractive guys from time to time? It doesn't mean he doesn't love and you and it doesn't mean that he doesn't find you attractive.
If he prefers really skinny girls, that's fine, but he obviously likes your body type because he's with YOU! (Remember that.)
Whatever you do, don't lose weight for ANY boy - they're not worth it (and you sound skinny enough as it is).
2007-03-26 13:27:00 · answer #6 · answered by Delvala 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well its a guy thing to always check out other woman..BUT if its in your face he is doing it thats not good..He would respect that your with him and would turn his head (not to look)...You also seem somewhat conceded...I am just reading what you wrote..You should read it back to yourself it almost sounds like your too good for him too....
I think girls mess with him just to show you they can and he wont walk away (thats his fault)...
Anyway good luck~
2007-03-26 13:31:23 · answer #7 · answered by **Mishelly** 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys like to look at what they can't have. My bf does the same thing and it drives me crazy. I've realized that the problem is my own insecurities ( but i still think the behaviour is rude).
Maybe try and ask him and say:
"Honey, i love you, but when you look and flirt with other girls in my presence, i am really offended. If you must do that, please do it when i'm not around becuase it hurts"
If he doesnt' agree, then it may be time to consider re-evalutating your relationship
2007-03-26 13:29:15 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
He's tall and lots of hair. He can have any girls he wants. Deal with it. When you met was there any alcohol involved, well good luck. If he's looking he's banging. Watch out for the aids virus.
2007-03-26 13:29:51 · answer #9 · answered by LuckyChucky 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you told him it hurts you and he still does it then he is not the right man for you. Go find yourself a GOOD man who will respect you.
2007-03-27 00:03:03 · answer #10 · answered by dohm84 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys are like that. They don't know how to appreciate the ladies in their life and go on a oogle at other ladies.
2007-03-26 13:28:12 · answer #11 · answered by happy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋