My friend who is also really good friends with him is continually informing me about how he loves me and stuff, but I really think that we were better off as friends. How do I tell him? PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-26 13:22:45 · 21 answers · asked by Hmm... ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I was telling my friend this after I got the courage to, and she really wasn't that suportive AT ALL!!! She was like, well you can't do this to him, but you can't break up with him either, because that would kill him. GRRRRRR NOW WHAT?????????!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-29 09:37:31 · update #1
Just sit him down and explain how you are feeling. If you think that you may have rushed into the relationship, tell him. Tell him that you feel as though things may be better if you two were to remain friends and hopefully he will understand. All you can do is to be honest with him. Hope this helps.
2007-03-26 13:30:18 · answer #1 · answered by Shandra S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you do not stay in a relationship with a man because of what your G/F thinks. Forget her opinion and do what you know you need to do.
BE HONEST. Tell him that you don't want to hurt him, but that you think in order for the 2 of you to remain friends you need to be ONLY friends. That you don't want to end the relationship, only the g/f b/f part of it. Tell him all the qualities you love about him and all the things that you don't like about the relationship now. in the end you may have to lose him as a friend all together, or he may be come your very best friend that check out all your new b/f's. kind of like a spy from the other side.
Just be honest.
2007-04-03 16:46:12 · answer #2 · answered by j m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to sit down in private and tell him how you feel. You don't want to hurt his feelings or else you won't be friends at all. Say something like, "I'm sorry but I don't think this relationship is working. We're better off as friends."
2007-03-26 20:28:33 · answer #3 · answered by purplediamond_10 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had something similar happen to me recently. You need to be completely honest with this guy. Tell him that you love him, but you love him as a friend and not as a boyfriend. Be honest and be careful. Ignore your friend and listen to your heart. Corny, but necessary.
2007-04-03 18:33:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him exactly what you just said, ''I really think we were better off as friends", and tell him that you want to be JUST friends now. Hope it helps!!!
2007-03-26 20:30:30 · answer #5 · answered by brybry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest. Best advice I ever got was to break up with him like you'd want your brother to broken up with. In other words don't play games.
2007-04-03 18:14:15 · answer #6 · answered by lisa h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him you feel really close to him you love him he is a great person and you really like him but you need to just be friends right now
2007-04-03 14:30:59 · answer #7 · answered by Angel eyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it's time we let go of one another,not saying we don't have to talk any more we can still be friends and i think we will communicate better on a friend level
2007-03-26 20:27:52 · answer #8 · answered by koolaid_585 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U can tell him, "I just need some time, but I w could still b friends.".
2007-03-26 20:26:55 · answer #9 · answered by Mighitman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sit down with him and have a nice heart to heart chat. tell him exactly how you feel. for all you know he may be agonizing about telling you the same thing!
2007-03-26 20:27:36 · answer #10 · answered by JEANNE B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋