it started when my friends was playing this daring game so i joined in .my dare was to hug the boy i like . so i did the dare it felt funny when i hug him because i was nervous and it felt a little wierd because he tougth i was going to hit him cause we do play alot. but he just going to stand there when i hug him .even though we hug one time before this time it felt so weird and stange when i did it.and now im confused
2007-03-26 13:20:19 · 8 answers · asked by kelis 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well I get the impresion that you guys are already good friends. It probably felt wierd because you knew that you were SUPPOSED to hug him, just because you like him. But mostly you can tell what people think about thingsfrom their initial reaction such as how did they respond? Did he hug you back? Did he have a funny look on his face afterwards like, "What did you do that for?" Has he avioded you or acted any different afterwards? Obviously if he had returned the hug, he liked it. If he aviodes you then there's a good chance he didn't, but he might have, some boys are like that. They get wierd and aviod the girl once they realize they like her. If he gave you a funny look, that could go either way. If he smiled a nervous sort of half smile he probably didn't like it, or was feeling confused himself. If he had just sort of an inquiring smile, and look, but didn't seem too unsure, that means that he didn't rejuect it, so he didn't necissarily hate it. (And no I haven't studied the humans and their feelings or anything like that, and no I'm not a therapist of any sort.) So that's my advice. Just keep hanging out with him and being yourself!
2007-03-26 13:33:12 · answer #1 · answered by Hmm... ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That wasn't just a hug. The dare wasn't about hugging. It could have been, "kiss the boy you like" or "slap the boy you like" or "give a blade of grass to the boy you like." It wasn't the hug that made it weird. It was what the hug meant. Of course it felt weird. You were telling him that you liked him.
You have to understand the message that you were sending him. Had to TOLD him with WORDS in front of everybody, what would his reaction mean to you? [Since you are obviously like what? 5? (because of your atrocious writing ability) we can't help you with that. I can't understand your language.] If he was resistant then he PROBABLY isn't into you, or he could have been just shy. If he hugged you back, then maybe he likes you.
2007-03-26 20:44:56 · answer #2 · answered by SmartAlex 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you were in the middle of a game with a group of other kids, not really the time or place for making any judgments on how some one feels about you based on a hug.
How you can tell if he likes you or not is how he acts toward you the rest of the time.
2007-03-26 20:25:59 · answer #3 · answered by JEANNE B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
me 2
2007-03-26 20:24:22 · answer #4 · answered by i ♥ u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends - your situation seems kinda forced, but when i hugged someone who liked me, they're reluctant to let go and kinda hung on a bit longer than a normal hug
2007-03-26 20:24:40 · answer #5 · answered by Zuri 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hugging isn't a big deal at all hun! if u think u like him talk to him about it and see if the feeling is mutual!
2007-03-26 20:24:46 · answer #6 · answered by Lollipop 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should ask him...if your 2 uncomfortable 2 ask him in person maybe send a not 2 him...best of luck!!
2007-03-26 20:24:24 · answer #7 · answered by Jordyn C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry about it, its just a hug. it dosent mean anything.
<3
2007-03-26 20:24:57 · answer #8 · answered by Shelby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋