Hi, I met a guy a week ago!
I kinda like him, his cute, sexy and so...
We never ended in bed...but today he asked me if I want to have a menage à trois with his friend! And he means business...
Well... i was in this for "to be" with him.. but never thought with someone else too (which I don't even met), the problem is I don't know if I want him that bad...and also I never had a threesome...how does is like?
would i enjoy it and does it works?
Please help....
Thankx
2007-03-26 13:11:58 · 15 answers · asked by mei_mei 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A threesome is a pretty nice deal...if you're ready for it.
If you're not ready then back off,especially if you've not been with the guy alone yet.
If you've only known him a week then it's probably a good bet that he won't take you any more seriously than he needs to just to get the deal to go down.
Judging by your question I'd guess that you're quite young.You've got your whole life ahead of you to decide what you're comfortable with.Don't let ANYONE talk you into a situation that doesn't feel right to YOU!
Besides....it's the guy that should feel lucky that he's been picked for a threesome.Not the girls.The girls usually are the ones who pick!
2007-03-26 13:26:14 · answer #1 · answered by Danny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kinda sounds to me that he's interested in sex and fun in bed more than anything else. Don't subject yourself to something like this with someone you've just met and/or someone you don't even know. Thats how diseases are spread, and feelings are hurt. Be patient, use extreme caution. Also, if you are ever having doubts about anything sexual, just don't do it at all unless you are 100% for it.
2007-03-26 13:17:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you sleep with him after a week of meeting, it does not really speak well of you,but if you go all the way and sleep with both him and his friend,then im sorry that is really bad. I suggest you tell him that you dont want to do it. he is probably testing to make sure you are not a loose girl of some sort.
if he respected you he would not ask that of you after knowing you for a mere week.ask him to grow up.
2007-03-26 13:26:23 · answer #3 · answered by Chelseachic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Damn that sound nasty, A threesome with him and another guy! What kind of friends are these? Plus with all the diseases going around with two why add another, unless your really that curious for an extra itch. sounds to me like he's done this before.
2007-03-26 13:17:44 · answer #4 · answered by mahoganay 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Gee, the thought of not 2 but 4 hands roaming all over, and not one round of foreplay, but 2 and lets see.. two mouths, two private parts, etc.... I am thinking more is better.. LOL
2007-03-26 13:15:26 · answer #5 · answered by Steffi 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The thing about a 3some is that you need to know and trust the people that you are going to do it with. I have done it a couple of times but it has always been with people i know and trust.
2007-03-26 13:20:47 · answer #6 · answered by jimmy_chick78 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey, he is using you as a piece of @as and nothing else. he likes you enough to sleep with you and another girl so if i were you i would dump his kinky @as and find someone that treats you like a queen and not a booty call. good luck and do the right thing. =]]]]
2007-03-26 13:17:07 · answer #7 · answered by mary m 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He should want to be with you first before sharing you. And you're relationship needs to be stable before dabbling with something like that.
2007-03-26 13:22:37 · answer #8 · answered by Jewel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's good if you like attention, but the after feeling is not too great....
2007-03-26 13:15:10 · answer #9 · answered by tallyluver 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It works go for it.
2007-03-26 13:15:34 · answer #10 · answered by Chicklet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋