at first the relationship was good then we hit a bump in the road and had alot of up and downs. there was times i suspected she was cheating on me because she accused me of cheating all the time and on the weekends she was very hard to get a hold of but i had no real proof. in january we had a huge fight and i was tired of her b.s. so i broke up with her. i was comfortable with my decision. 6 weeks later she called me so we talked. a week later she told me she loved me. i told her i was speechless and told her she was going to make me cry. i was not prepared to say those words back......i have feelings for her but not prepared to say i love you at this point. two weeks later she told me she had no time for a relationship. i was taken aback. i would call her but sdhe never really returns my calls and does not call me when she says she will. i heard from her for the first time in a week. i asked her to call after 6 pm tonight but she wont. What should i think of this?
2007-03-26 13:04:53 · 6 answers · asked by make_me_sweat_692002 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This sounds like a lot of work for a lot of nothing! Talk about high maintenance! Whew...I think I would have quit a long time ago. Just think, you could be dating a girl who actually has fun with you. Someone who is sweet, funny, smart, spunky, sexy...all the things you want in a girl. But, no? You're waiting around for what?
Ask her the same thing. What are we doing here? Is this fun for you? Don't we deserve more than this from a relationship?
I'm sorry, but it makes me sad when someone gets stuck in a relationship rut and can't get out. Please, go have some fun, life is short and you need to enjoy it now!
2007-03-26 13:21:43 · answer #1 · answered by minimickimichelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When she says she has no time for a relationship, would make me think that she has gotten herself pregnant and needs to get married straight away, to save her honour. When you showed no interest to her in saying that you loved her back, she might have started looking around for someone else to marry her. That is only how I would see it. She could just be hurt because you didn't tell her that you loved her after she told you that she loved you.
2007-03-26 20:19:02 · answer #2 · answered by Alwyn C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think its time to move on. she might not be cheating on you, but i always think if you broke up with someone, and get together again, always think of WHY you broke up with them. and those kind of relationships never last.
2007-03-26 20:10:50 · answer #3 · answered by skigrrrrl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Totally move on. You can find someone better. She is just playing with you.
2007-03-26 20:11:54 · answer #4 · answered by purplediamond_10 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm she is playing games w/ u. just end it move on u can find some1 better.
2007-03-26 20:08:07 · answer #5 · answered by question man 911 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is playin games or really confused give her time to mature and grow.
2007-03-26 20:07:51 · answer #6 · answered by dred_loxx_4life 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋