I broke up with my boyfriend on December, we were dating during 2 weeks,he is my neighboor, on December 23 he kissed me. After a wile he stoped searching for me and I didn´t knew why so I asked one of his friends and he told me that my boyfriend was dating other girl, I was DEVASTATED¡¡¡¡¡ then I talked to him and he told me that his friends told him that I WAS DATING OTHER GUY¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡ and that he had another girlfriend. Since last week he is trying to get my attention and I´m trying to find him but I DON´T KNOW WHY¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡ I don´t need him but my heart is desperatly asking me for him, I think that at the bottom of my heart I still love him. Now I have a friend that reminds me my ex-boyfriend and I love my friend as a friend but I like to be with him alot because he reminds me my ex¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡ what can I do¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡ I´M EXTREMELY CONFUSED¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡
I NEED HELP PLEASE¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡
2007-03-26 13:02:13 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My ex want to return with me?? Why he is tring to call my attention?? why I´m secretly searching him?? I´m confused
help me please
2007-03-26 13:13:02 · update #1
You didn't have closer on the first 2 weeks. So you are naturally unsure of what terms you are on with him. This is when communication is important. You need to talk to your ex and find out what his intentions are. You should let him know you still think about him and need closer. You need to know why he just stopped calling. Without knowing why it ended your stuck unsure if you can repair the damage that has been done.
After you find out the truth of the situation, you can decide if pursuing your ex or the other person that reminds you of your ex is better for you. If you decide not to go with you ex, you may want to consider going with your friend that is like your ex.
I hope that helps, I was a little confused at the second half of your question.
2007-04-03 08:04:12 · answer #1 · answered by Rumin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-05 17:03:41 · answer #2 · answered by henning 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand your confusion. You said you found out that he still wants you and you love him. So what's the problem. One of the things seems to be that the two of you have way too much drama going on between you. First from others getting involved and second from lack of communication. Stop playing games and be real. That should solve everything.
2007-04-03 09:29:47 · answer #3 · answered by sustasue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he has some power over you, and he may know that. I would take some time away from him and date other people and if you go back to your ex, then it might be meant to be. Be careful though that your ex isn't just keeping you on the side to go back to you whever he wants so. Be strong girl!!
2007-04-03 08:52:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop being infatuated with one particular person and grow up a bit and start building intimate relationships with a wide circle of friends.
"Puppy love" doesn't do you justice; it only holds back your growth to let your emotions get all absorbed in one person.
2007-04-03 12:13:29 · answer #5 · answered by fra59e 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
desperate....u need to forget about guys for a month. then come on back to the jist of things.
2007-03-26 13:06:57 · answer #6 · answered by question man 911 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my advice: get yourself a bottle of whiskey and listen to some country classics
2007-04-03 01:12:08 · answer #7 · answered by krafty1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to find some random guy and just have relentless sex
2007-04-03 04:07:49 · answer #8 · answered by Derek 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋