i have been with my fiance for a long time, we love eachother very dearly.i do not have any reason to be lieve that she has ever cheated on me.i have also been very faithful to her.
now that she is close to delivery hoever, i find myself wanting to verify that the child it definitely mine.i dont have any reason for this feeling but my mind keeps insisting that i should just make her do the test just to be sure of the partenity of the baby.
do you think this migh bring unnecessary negetive energy? should i just ignore the feeling or go on and ask?,and if i should ask how should i go about it so that my fiance does not think i dont trust her.?
2007-03-26 12:54:30 · 7 answers · asked by kwabral y 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is a very good and important question, yes go ahead let her know that you you like a dna test,
this how you say it:
fiance, i would like for us to take a dna test, due to the reason if we every going to have a baby, i want to make sure our baby is healthy, im sure you would like for our kid to be healthy, wouldnt you? "from here, you SHUT UP.. wait for her respond, dont talk, " by the way im sure you are in best health condition, but it would be great for us to check out anything that we need to know about in our dna we dont aware of.
tell her how much you love her and value her opinion, thats why you discuss this matter with her.
good luck, take care.
2007-03-26 13:04:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is very wise to listen to your gut feelings and you will never be happy unless you get her to have the DNA test to know if the child is yours or not.
Don't ever ignore that feeling in your guts as if you do, you are just killing your self inside as if some cancer is eating you alive inside. This is a very miserable way to live and the sooner you get it over; the sooner you can start living again.
You will never know how great the magnitude of this uncertainty weight on your back and psyche;until you sort this out in a pleasant manner. Since she is pregnant it is not wise to tell her so as this can have unnecessary complications for her and the child.
Wait when she have delivered the child and is getting better to tell her the burning issue and which ever way things go after that in your relationship. You will be a much happier person as some of us find our selves in situations were the options are not always pleasant.
2007-03-26 13:21:54 · answer #2 · answered by Premio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me that you are one seriously jealous person. Unfortuantly, you will never break out of this way of life and you will find that you make your girlfriends life hell.
Youve given her one, youve made her pregnant, just accept it. Your now a father, just like yours was to you. Act it
2007-03-26 13:05:02 · answer #3 · answered by pop c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
has she cheated before? if so then you have a right to ask, if not, that is definately going to cause some friction between you too. I wouldnt
2007-03-26 12:58:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, ummm, I think I would be offended if my boyfriend asked me for a test....but then again it is your right to know....and if you have an unstable relationship then yeah I would do it, but it would damage my realtionship and I would know he didn't trust me.....wow this is a tuff Question.....Good luck
2007-03-26 12:59:43 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i had,or my husband had one tiny doubt in his mind,i would have a DNA done
2007-03-26 12:58:38 · answer #6 · answered by kat_luvr2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you wold say why ! KK
2007-03-27 00:24:19 · answer #7 · answered by still free crew 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋