so you have this little girl that has been severly abused in the her first 8 years of life after the things get a little better and she remains confused and grows up living in a fog! she gets married young , has a child, husband very abusive and leaves. she is alone ! she tries to mend ties with her family but father drops her like a hot potato! mother says she is sorry for all the crap she went through! but she isnt able to understand mom! she seeks refuge under God , but her prayers are never answered! Girl continues to raise child , gets an educatin but never is able to trust people , and God no longer is the answer either! she becomes successful but it doesnt change the fact that she has no friends , at all, she just sort of lives day by day! she raised her child and did everything any parent could ever do for it! she let herself go and just doesnt care! God is still nowhere to be found !
on outside she is hard core (pretending),on the inside she is sad! I want to help her!
2007-03-26 12:51:59 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
ran out of characters - she wont let anyone come close! she pretends to be this person she isnt ,and she gets misunderstood for it! what should I do?
she said she talked to a therapist and a priest and got no relief! she is very beautiful! but hides that as well!
some help here!
2007-03-26 12:55:59 · update #1
thats some serious s**t, not sure there is a solution!
2007-03-26 12:57:30 · answer #1 · answered by Pedro Sanchez 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is damaged but not beyond repair. You want to help her, but does she want your help? Life can be really hard and sometimes it is easier to put out that poor me signal when we get frustrated. Her not being able to trust people is something she is going to have to work out for herself. Be the best friend you can possibly be, trust is earned and if she begins to trust you that is a start.
Prayers are answered in His time not ours. A while ago I was praying for answers and they didn't come. what did come in the form of a dream is that I did not know ho to pray. I was asking for things rather than guidance. Once I began praying for guidance, He showed me the way.
2007-03-26 20:02:09 · answer #2 · answered by jerzybuckeye 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, the answer to me is that clearly this woman needs some good counseling. With that (and perhaps the use of anti-depressants, depending on what her doctor prescribe) she can start feeling good about herself and create loving relationships.
2007-03-26 19:56:29 · answer #3 · answered by N 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Find out what no one has given her; and give it to her! She may not open up immediately (depending on the thickness of her 'hard core'(shell)), but she should open up to you soon!!!
2007-03-26 20:05:27 · answer #4 · answered by jefferyspringer57@sbcglobal.net 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG that is so horriable! i feel so sorry for who ever this is, somebody should try and help her!
2007-03-26 19:57:52 · answer #5 · answered by Sarah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋