2007-03-26 12:49:54 · 34 answers · asked by aly 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
sorry i'm really confused so my, spelling is off
2007-03-26 12:51:38 · update #1
guys she's 13
2007-03-26 13:10:16 · update #2
That is a tough situation to be in. Your cuz obviously has confidence in you, but I must assume you and your cuz are quite young. For her own good and protection I would strongly urge her to tell her mom. Pray to Jesus for strength and direction, and aly_dent I will pray for you and your cuz.
2007-03-26 13:15:28 · answer #1 · answered by Kurt 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would say that depends on her age and the age of her boyfriend. If he is 25 and she is 14 yes. If she is 18 and he is 18 no. Just use the best common sense that you can and if you choose to tell prepare for your cousin's wrath. If you are truly worried about her, talk to her about safe sex and why you are worried about her choice; but always remember that right or wrong it is your cousin's choice. I am wondering if there is some other reason you are worried. Is he sleeping with a lot of girls or diseased?
*OMG 13! Tell her mother immediately, like tonight.
2007-03-26 12:57:58 · answer #2 · answered by future dr.t (IM) 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First thing she trusted to tell you right. Well that is a very private thing to share number one. Unless she is broadcasting it to all the relatives Im sure her mom will find out through the grapevine if she is. Otherwise you don't want to lose your line of trust she has with you. Good luck!
2007-03-26 12:55:26 · answer #3 · answered by anabanana 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well its really none of your business but if you still want to say something then just tell her that you think that she needs to get her daughter on birth control for her own good and maybe if the mother has any sense she will be able to figure out the rest
2007-03-26 15:26:58 · answer #4 · answered by seadove65 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes! Immediately!
2007-03-26 12:58:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
If your Cousin had ( Unprotected Sex ) then it is best that she get tested. Telling her mom the decision rest with you as you are the one holding all the cards.
2007-03-26 12:57:08 · answer #6 · answered by Premio 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ur cuz is now going in the wrong direction, if you do not tell her mom she would prolly do it again and again thinking nothing is bad going to happen, sooner or later she will get pregnant. save her if u loved her u would let her know what she is doing wrong if she does not lisen to you. tell her mom.
2007-03-26 13:42:17 · answer #7 · answered by nora456a 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You should find a trusted adult to talk to about this. Your cousin could get pregnant, or could get AIDS or something else. If she's under 18, you need to tell an adult to project her.
2007-03-26 13:02:45 · answer #8 · answered by Faith 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
She entrusted you with something important. Unless she's in immediate danger (i.e an abusive relationship) don't rat on her. She won't come to you next time with something that might actualyl be life threatening.
2007-03-26 13:31:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I don't think you should be the one to tell. You should tell your cuz that she should have a talk with her mom.
2007-03-26 13:15:53 · answer #10 · answered by kjrndr 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋