My bf asked me to give afriend of his a hj. I did it and now he wants me to do it to another of his friends. I've been going with my bf for 3 months. I think he loves me and I would do anything for him but is he asking me to do too much. I don't mind but why does he share me? Isn't sex just for us. Would you do it for ur bf?
2007-03-26 12:46:47 · 37 answers · asked by Daisy L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, this is not a joke. Girls only please.
2007-03-26 12:51:29 · update #1
i really hope your joking......he is using you big time hahah...you have to be able to see that
2007-03-26 12:49:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I would never do that for my boyfriend!! In the end it will cause a lot of drama. He is start to think you like one of his friends more than him or that they have a bigger member!! I think that sometimes in relationships we have to draw a line as to what we would do for the one will love. I mean would you go rob a store just because he liked to watch? I think that there is nothing wrong with a threesome every now and then but he is getting use to sharing you with too many people. Stop while your ahead girl.
2007-03-27 01:49:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NEVER!! He is using you as a sex toy for himself and his friends. He knows that you would do anything for him so he is abusing this and if he is doing this to you he does NOT really love you.
This angers me that he is doing this.. my advice would have to be to dump him i am sorry to say. I know you love him but you can find someone so much better who loves you and will treat you with respect.
A NORMAL good boyfriend would never want you to do stuff like that with other guys. He would want to keep it between you two and sex or hj or bj are really a special thing between only you and you love.
Hope this helps
2007-03-26 12:54:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have only been with him 3 months and you have let him turn you into a "handjob whore"?Let me tell you what you are to him, a sex toy to be used as he wishes.He knows how you feel about him and he uses it to his advantage.He is also sick.If I were dating you I would NEVER ask you to touch another guy sexually.He and his friends are ragging you out behind your back and now you are know everywhere as the easy hand whore who will do anything...yes anything her b/f asks or commands her to do because he weilds power over her.Get some dignity and self respect girlfriend, your are a HUMAN being and you deserve to be respected unfortunately you have lost your respectability and will have to gain it back.Tell this pervert off ,dump him and be somebody!
2007-03-26 12:53:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your bf might be using you... Thats not cool, you need to dump him because it seems like your bf doesnt even mind about this at all! A guy who loves their girl would never let their gf touch any other guy. And hjs should only be given to him, not his friends... So yeah move on, dont let them use you like a hooker. You dont deserve this crap from him.
2007-03-26 12:57:06 · answer #5 · answered by =P 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No way!!! He has prob told his mates you give a great hj and they have all wanted it so to brag he has got you to give them one...or else he is just using you and paying you out behind your back..are you sure he loves you? it should be an intimate thing between just the two of you not shared around would you want him to go down on one of yuour friends? Maybe you should ask him why he wants you too...and whether he really does love you......
2007-03-26 12:52:02 · answer #6 · answered by nemily88 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No. If my bf asked me to do that, he would be using his own hands from then on for his handjob. He wouldn't be touching me for a long, long time, if ever. It's disrespectful to be treated like a property or object to be shared as he desires. This isn't about sex or love. It's about power and control over you.
Sex is just for you and your bf. If he asked you to do his friends, though, I'd seriously rethink whether you ought to be having sex with him.
2007-03-26 12:54:39 · answer #7 · answered by Elisa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no 4 one i don't have sex with my bf and 2 if he did ask we would probably get into an argument and we would act like we're 2 years old and eventually break up and he knows better than to share
2007-03-26 12:59:27 · answer #8 · answered by `Avenging~ghetto~bird` 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
by no skill... if my substantial different reported that he needed to have a threesome with somebody else, i could take it that he grew to become into bored of me and needs a hall pass to screw somebody else with my permission particularly than sneak approximately and do it. i could end with mine if he asked. If he retains asking, he's hinting that the spark has long previous between you too.. regardless of in case you have yet another woman.. there will be insecurities... somebody else on right here published approximately yet another woman; being in the 3some, now the bf thinks that the gf is a lesbian....
2016-11-23 17:50:55 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nasty!
You know better and if you don't then someone needs to smack your mama for not teaching you any better.
If you are serious and that damn young and dumb........yes sex is for only two people!
AND WHY THE HELL WOULD YOU DO IT????
HE DON'T LOVE YOU AND IT SOUNDS LIKE YOU DON'T EITHER. TELL HIM TO HIT THE ROAD AND YOU NEED TO WAIT FOR SEX UNTIL YOU ARE OLD ENUFF TO HANDLE IT!!
I do not mean to sound so ugly, but honey you are being used. You are going to get a dam std and you are losing the respect of other people....for what???? a stupid boy....yes BOY!!!!
2007-03-26 12:55:46 · answer #10 · answered by pooty36 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I understand u wud do nething for him, but when he asked u to do it the first time why did u just ask him is this how much u care that ur actually gonna make me do this? is he trying to get rid of u? cuz i dun understand y wud he make u do that unless to make it a issue or just make a fool out of u....no hunny i wouldnt do that sorta thing for my bf neither wud my bf make me.....altho i would give life for em...
2007-03-26 12:54:34 · answer #11 · answered by angelxxdevil2005 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋