Hi, there's a girl on my bus that I am interested in. We don't go to the same school (I go to the all guys school and she goes to the all girls school). Anyway, I'm pretty shy and she seems shy also. I've started saying "hey" to her when I see her, but I need to start some conversations. What should we talk about? I seem to not be able to start conversations and drop out of them quickly also. So I need something interesting to talk about.
Any advice?
Thanks,
Greg
P.S. We are both in 9th grade
2007-03-26 12:44:21 · 19 answers · asked by Greg 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You want to appeal to the girls emotions so talk ask/command her to tell you about stuff she likes. Talk about exciting topics that likely are appeal to her. If you can find out what shes passionate about likely she will come out of her shyness. Tell her stories about the fun and interesting that you have experienced (anytime which you have felt strong emotion). Be funny and dramatic and possibly tease her. Just make sure you dont talk about boring things, you dont one-up her, and you dont brag (too much). If you feel that interesting things dont happen to you be more outgoing (i know this can be hard and i have definitely had to work on this) and stories are soon to follow. Just be relaxed, have confidence, and pretend like shes your best friend.
2007-03-26 12:57:25 · answer #1 · answered by twid392™ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe start by introducing yourself and asking her name. Then try asking what the all girls school is like and if she likes it. Tell her what you think about the all boys school and if you like it. Ask what classes she's in and if she likes her teachers then give her the same info about you. That should hold for a bus ride. If not maybe ask her if she's made any new friends this year or if she has any siblings and what they're like then give her the same info about you. Good luck!
tip: maybe practice this convo in the mirror so that when you start talking to her you lessen the chance of you studdering.
2007-03-26 19:50:25 · answer #2 · answered by Brandy N 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best way to start a conversation is to ask a question.
Like ask her; "Have you seen _____ movie yet." If she has ask her what her thought of it. If she hasn't, tell her you were thinking of seeing it and wanted to know if it's any good. Then continue on with what other movies has she seen lately.
Or ask her want her favourite or worst school subject is then try to agree with her and laugh about it. Also you tell her your worst and best subjects are. Remember people like people with a good sense of humour.
2007-03-26 20:03:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start with her name. Tell her you've been saying hi to her all this time but you still don't know her name. Introduce yourself. Talk about the school first (i.e. talk about how u dont feel like going to school). I feel the conversation should just flow after you to introduce yourself
2007-03-26 19:53:46 · answer #4 · answered by uglyvanity 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk about the weather. Talk about what is happening at your school and talk about your likes and dislikes. talk about your hobbies and maybe your plans for the upcoming summer. Be creative and be honest and sincere and have fun for now and don't take life so seriously. Be upfront with others and let them know what you think about things if you like. Compliment her on the way she dresses and her smile and sense of humor.
2007-03-26 19:49:38 · answer #5 · answered by Lewis P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
use words like; by the way, isnt it, couldnt it, shouldnt it, would you agree, how come, cant it? wouldnt it, why you think that?
by the way xxxx how is/was your day today?
what did you do? what classes are you taking this semister?
hey i saw you everyday on this bus, but dont know you name?
mind if i sit here?
so what do you do for fun?
isnt it true that" talk about a subject you want to talk about?:"
nice hair, nice clothes, nice eyes, you look pretty, indicate that you acknowledge their present.
good luck!!
2007-03-26 19:52:58 · answer #6 · answered by Tony S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask her how her day is going, find out something that she is interested in,just start with small talk like that and when you guys get my comftroble around each other you guys will be talkin it up like you guys have known each other all ur lives. u cant do anything more then be yourself
2007-03-26 19:50:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
easy, as her if she likes to go to her school, how is like to be with girls only, if the teachers are very stricts etc. you dont want to ask anything personal the first times. you can bring your ipod (for example) and ask her what she thinks about this or that song. good luck!!! :)
2007-03-26 19:48:57 · answer #8 · answered by chikis 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her shes got fantastic looking breasts.. If that doesnt work, tell her shes got the best looking butt youve ever seen.
And if neither of those work, tell her that next Xmas you are going to hang a pair of Black fishnet stockings over your fireplace and really hope that she will fill them for you....
Just tell her you fancy her and will she go on a date with you...
2007-03-26 19:53:49 · answer #9 · answered by pop c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone loves to talk about themselves. Just find something that yall have in common and go with it! Good luck!
2007-03-26 19:48:54 · answer #10 · answered by Chelsey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋