Okay, I have a guy best friend but we both have feelings for eachother. We haven`t gone out yet but we do make out. Technically, were ''Friends-With-Benefits'' but he hasn`t made the move to ask me out but I don`t know if I should be the one to do it. Also, any tips when makeing out?? And last time I was with him, he tryed to put his hands inside my pants and I was so shocked he would do that, so I just grabbed it out. He kept doing that and when I tryed pulling it out again, it was hard becuase he`s a guy and he was forcing it in there. But after a while, he stopped. So yea, I don`t have a problem with him doing that, it`z just I would feel more comfortable if we were more then what we are now. How do I tell him?
2007-03-26 12:34:56 · 7 answers · asked by ThE_cOoL-cHiCk_fOr-lIfE_650 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First and foremost, he needs to quit forcing himself on you like that. That's the first strike.
Second, the whole "friends with benefits" is a cop-out, no matter if it is a guy or a girl who insists on this type of relationship. I mean, if people want to sleep around, their choice--but don't screw up existing friendships. Personally, what I have seen as far as "friends with benefits" go, they were never your friend to begin with. It's just a softer way of saying "I just wanna get laid and move on".
Don't ask him out, he already knows the boundaries aren't there. Why would he start now?
2007-03-26 12:40:55 · answer #1 · answered by Smooch The Pooch 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Either they're praying on your god or they don't seem to be. If they don't seem to be, no damage. If they're then most likely that is well? I do not see why you might have a challenge. I feel your uneasiness need to come from whatever else. Also, I discover it very exciting that you simply say you simplest ask christian peers to hope for you, while that's visible. What do you imply by way of it? Who do you exclude from praying for you and extra importantly, WHY do you exclude them?
2016-09-05 17:02:20 · answer #2 · answered by henning 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say, "Are you my boyfriend?" If the answer is no, tell him to put his hand in his own pants for a change.
2007-03-26 12:38:35 · answer #3 · answered by ripley01 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
JUSS BE LIKE THIS
HEY I JUSS WANA TO LET U NOE DAT U HAVE BEEN SOO SWEET N NICE
SO I WANTED TO NOE IF U LIKE ME..CUZ I THINK I HAVE A CRUSH ON U...N BE NIC WHEN U SAY IT..HE MIGHT LIKE IT
2007-03-26 12:38:25 · answer #4 · answered by K0BE'Z BAY BAY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
now days its OK to ask him out. he may be a little shy. so you GO FOR IT
2007-03-26 12:41:22 · answer #5 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
easy, just ask him, be like "hey do you want to go out?" and thats about it. there's really nothing more to it
2007-03-26 12:38:59 · answer #6 · answered by TheDrummer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that you wanna be more than friendz and ..........ok? the part of wat he did yeah gross
2007-03-26 12:40:02 · answer #7 · answered by luba l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋