HI I'm having trouble with my boyfriend i think he is cheating on me any advise?

Question

When i call him he always is shadey and he only says ok or yea w/e and im getting worried about are relationshi=[

Answer 1

Follow your intuition.

Answer 2

all you can do is simply ask him and trust him when he says no. He won't say yes if he is cheating on you. Trust is a HUGE part of relationships and if you can't trust him then maybe its not a good idea to be in it if you're always questioning him... Some questions you can ask yourself that can be hints are...:

1) Does he seem to lose trust in you like you may be doing something wrong? (guys who cheat will act more suspicious of you if you ever give off any signals of cheating, even if you never have_

2) Does he have any new ideas or positions in bed?

3) Does he buy you a lot of gifts for no reason, probably because he feels guilty?

4) is his phone bill high? (NEVER, steal his phone to see who he has been talking to... that is totally low and immature.. It shows you absolutely can't trust him and will just make things worse.)

5) If he jokes about being a "player" and jokes with linnes such as: EX: It's not cheating if their in different area codes.

6) He is out more often than normal and acts shady when you ask where he was.

7) If he is not as excited as he normally would be before having sexual intercourse. If it seems like he just wants to get it over with, if it takes him unusually longer when having intercourse, if he has a considerably noticable decrease in the amount of semen when he is done with intercourse AND you have not had sex with him recently.


All these things could mean he is cheating but before jumoing to conclusions, ask him... If you dont think he is being truthful, break it with him. its not worth it, cheating is bad... Never accuse him of cheating unless you know because being accused of this is one of the worst feelings of mistrust a guuy can feel and could ruin it forever

Answer 3

You need to ask him if he's cheating or not. See how he responds. If he's just going to say "yea w/e" or "ok" or just not giving you any straight answers then you know he's trying to hide something from you. I think you are right about him possibly cheating on you because it is kind of obvious he is. Or maybe he's just losing interest in you and doesnt care about anything in the relationship anymore. But either way, I think you need to end this relationship. Move on, you dont deserve to be treated like this.

Answer 4

Oh, hun I'm sorry.
It sounds to me that he is being distant and shady because he is too immature to tell you straight-up what is wrong. Usually in this situation it means that he is indeed finished with the relationship... it depends on how long you have been dating. If it has been for only a couple weeks or so then I would definetly say that he know longer has feelings for you and doesn't know how to let you know. Boys are dumb like that.
My advice to you is to end it before he does, or at least become comfortable with the idea before he gathers up the courage (wimp! lol jk) to tell it to you straight. You deserve to be with someone who wants to be with you, too.
I say you call some friends, buy some icecream, rent some chick flicks and say "syonara" to this guy.
Relationships are hard. = (

Answer 5

He could be, that sounds like someone that is no longer intrested in someone. Did he just start acting like that one day? If people have sudden personality changes that is sometimes a hint to a cheater. (My ex did that)

Don't jump to conclusions, but if he still acts like he dosen't want to talk to you, and seems to always be distracted by something, then ask him about and find out why he is acting this way. If he is cheating, then its up to what to do next.

Answer 6

Ask yourself a few questions. Do you know this guy well? How long has he known you? If you think that he is cheating on you, call up some girls you know he talks about a lot. Ask them stuff, but be really discreat about it. Try to trick them into saying stuff about him. Ask him stuff, and call him more often, try to trick him too. Hang out more with him, and most of all...
check for perfume smells on his shirts, and more so... his pants!
Good Luck!!!!!

Answer 7

Tell him how you feel.
Tell him that you think that the communication in your relationship is getting weak and you want to try and fix it.
Don't jump to the conclusion that he is cheating.
Although it is a possibility.
Just first try and fix the communication problem.
And if he still seems a little "weird" or shady.
Then I think you should dig a little more into it and find out if he's been cheating.

Answer 8

If he hardly talks to you when you to are having a conversation or if he hardly calls you then that will make you suspicious. Being cautious about your boyfriends actions is nothing new in this world.

Even to this day I still think my boyfriend is cheating on me, even after he says he's not. But I trust him.

Answer 9

If youre going to be insecure within your relationship then just leave him, maybe youre just worrying yourself for nothing..but if you really feel something is wrong or there have been sudden changes, then just set a trap for him..steal his cell phone password or ask around..you might be surprised what youll find out..either way..leave him..

Answer 10

First of all, IF he is cheating it is not your fault. He did not deserve you in the first place. Have you tried asking him? Or showing up when he's not expecting you to be there to were he's says he's gonna be? Me and my friend recently had the feeling her husband was cheating so we went to were he was supossed to be. Come to find out, he lied. He was not there.

Answer 11

Do you even see him? or just talk to him on the phone? Well if he is so rude to you over the phone that means he doesnt want to talk to you and maybe he is cheating. Best thing to do dont call him and see if he looks for you if not move on!!