So I broke up with my boyfriend of almost 2 years last in november/december.
(It had been a long distance relationship since that september when he moved 3 hours away for college. I didnt want a long distance relationship, but when i tried breaking up, he got extremely upset so I stuck with the relationship until last november/december, when he finally got the message that it wasn't working out)
But lately I've started to miss the whole thing of having a boyfriend. I've been single about 4 months now. I have a couple guy friends who've been chasing me around trying to become more than just guy friends =P but I dont really feel for any of them that kind of way.
In fact, I dont really feel for anyone in that kind of way... Am I being 'closed minded,' as one of my guy friends put it? Should I just date and see where it goes, even though I dont particularly like the person I date?
Or am I right, and I shouldn't date someone unless I already have some feelings for them? Thanks!
2007-03-26 12:24:53 · 3 answers · asked by Avlys J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't believe that you have to already have feelings for someone just to go out with them. You should just go out and have some fun. You don't have to get serious or anything, just get out and be social.
If you already have to have feeling for someone before you can go out with them, how are you supposed to get to know them enough to have feelings for them if you haven't ever gone out???
Good luck, have fun and don't take everything so seriously.
2007-03-26 12:30:59 · answer #1 · answered by animal lover 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-02 20:55:57 · answer #2 · answered by maritza 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No your not being closed minded. Let's start off this way, you need to at least like someone in order to date them. In my opinion, dating gives you the opportunity to get to know someone a little bit more, to decide if it might be something of interest to pursue long term. But you need to be certain that your ready to open yourself to any opportunities.
2007-03-26 12:33:41 · answer #3 · answered by Michelle J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋