i mean i dont have a problem walking up..but i have a problem on my conversation due to the fact that i dont know what to say..what can i exactly say..and is there anything else i should know about speaking to a girl/woman for a first time?
2007-03-26 12:16:51 · 6 answers · asked by ClickSubscribe 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OKAY, first of all you have to be really confident in you in order to do all the right moves. You just go to go up to her and compliment on the way she looks, oh yeah and ask for her name first though, try to know her friends and befriend with them, and talk about a topic she really enjoys,
2007-03-26 12:25:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two books to read:
"How To Make Anyone Fall In Love With You" by Leil Lowndes; "Body Language" by Susan Quilliam.
Another thing - most women in the history of the world have rejected most men most of the time - so develop a thick skin and ask EVERYONE out, starting with those you feel the least threatened by (either she is sympathetic or you imagine her to be "easy" - or whatever in your mind makes the task look doable). Would definitely help if you knew something about her beforehand so you could shape the conversation to get her to want to be involved.
2007-03-26 12:25:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is what I do...
Hey I don't mean to come off weird or freaky or anything but, you've caught my eye for sometime and I was wondering if you have a bf/Husband?
What do you do?
You look great! Do you like doing outdorsy things? Hiking? Gym?
Ask her questions on things you like to find out if she's into the same things....
2007-03-26 12:22:37 · answer #3 · answered by lotsofluv007 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just do what your heart says dont try and act like your macho because guys may think we dig that but we DONT. just be nice and dont move to fast build a trust before you ask her out or else you will come across as a player... unless your just looking for a one night stand with a girl you dont even know but if your not get to know her first.
2007-03-26 12:24:18 · answer #4 · answered by javabean 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you should always be respectful. And just start asking her questions that you would like to know about her, and make conversation about those answers from the questions, and just be yourself never try to be someone you are not. But just don't ask her to be your girlfriend or anything like that, just get to know her more, because sometimes people aren't what they appear to be.
2007-03-26 12:25:55 · answer #5 · answered by Little-one 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be like "I like your outfit" or "Hi, what's your name?" If she wants to talk to you she'll respond in a nice manner if not she'll walk away.
2007-03-26 12:24:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋