Girls: what sort of examples and other things make a guy's appear to have an attractive personality?

Question

also, name some things that make guys appear to
be smart, funny, sweet, in an attractive way

but most importantly, what do girls see as attractive personality traits?


explain the statement "someone you can be 'you' with...and not pretend."

that is "i like a guy who is someone you can be 'you' with...and not pretend."

Answer 1

A guy has to be able to make you laugh... even if he is just trying to impress you or crack stupid jokes. Also, he should tell you that he thinks you're beautiful and the tiem he spends with you is incredible... He should be nice to people close to the girl. I can't explain that statement because I don't even get it lol.

Answer 2

I really think that a guy that is willing to ask you if you need anything, or doing the little things for you is a wonderful personality trait. Another thing is being spontaneous... there's nothing nicer than doing sweet things, like a sincere smile, or a gentle touch every now and then that's unexpected. It's very nice and I think that's a huge plus.

And the statement that you are talking about means, that we want to love someone that we can be ourselves with, and we don't have to be on our best behaviour and act a little crazy without feeling silly or stupid. We just shouldn't have to ever act like we're something we're not, and that's pretty important.

Answer 3

i find a guy atactive if they can:
make me laugh
have nice eyes
aren't afraid 2 make amove
their not a player
can be devoted 2 me
of course-cute

i dont really care if:
they arent the hottest guy in school
not popular
shy
outgoing
einstein (very smart)
they dont spend every waking second w/ me
they dont like showing PDA (public displays of affection)
dont rush 4 the kiss
arent always polished up when i'm around
not into everything i am
always getting the doors and being all like that

hope this helps! kandi

Answer 4

Intellectual Depth: Love to hear a guy talk about something that I have no idea of...like different religions, poetry, politics...I feel l learn from him.

Opinionated: Has his own mind, beliefs

Funny: Can make a fool of himself without thinking of what others think!!

Converstaion: Love talking to everyone about everything and anything...

Answer 5

He needs to see the funny side of things--have a sense of humour. He needs to
be real--not a phony. He needs to be kind, courteous, caring, a gentleman. Hold
the door for the girl, hold the chair, that's just a start. : }

Answer 6

A guy that is fun to be with, nice, polite, has a life of his own and has a plan with what he's doing with his life(college,his major,job plans) is he intelligent, do we have things in common

Answer 7

i guy should be not only nice to the girl, but to everyone. guy who make fun of people and who are mean to people for no reason is a huge turn off

Answer 8

A guy that is attractive for me is when he has a good personality, honest, nice, caring, understanding, funny, sweet, smart, laid back, and not fake.

Answer 9

i prefer relaxed open...and a good sense of humor, you need to accept a girl for who she is and not judge her on it...be there for her and never brush off her problems that may seem unimportant to you...sometimes those little things can be big indicators...start out as being a good friend...that makes you seem like your more intersted in her mind

Answer 10

a guy who is pretty open and honest doesnt try to hard and just overall is outgoing. like you can talk to him and he'll go along with the conversation and keep it going. and also, if he makes me laugh that's a plus.