He's in most of my classes and I think he likes me but I'm not sure yet so I don't know if I should ask him out or not. I need to know how I can make him like me.
2007-03-26 12:10:58 · 22 answers · asked by boltluvr86 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
talk to his friends..
2007-03-26 12:14:00 · answer #1 · answered by Felix 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At first, you have to see how much you really like him. Do you think about him 24/7? Is he always in your dreams? Do you see yourself marrying him? I know it sounds extreme, but you really need to answer these questions, because if you say no to any of them, you're not gonna work out anyway.
Therefore, give it a little time to see if your affect wears off, like 6-8 weeks. If it doesn't, then start flirting, and becoming more aggressive with yourself in his presence, even if it isn't something you do naturally. It's just a turn on for most men, and if he likes you, he'll probably show it once you get a little more confident.
Finally, if flirting doesn't work, talk to him truely and sincerely. Ask him straight out and see what he says, but let him know you dont want to lose him as a friend bc you like him, bc later down the road he might like you back, and you want him around then. ;)
2007-03-26 12:15:59 · answer #2 · answered by Chris C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cannot make someone like you im sorry but you cant if you could im pretty sure half the gurls in the world would have a boyfriend.. so thats outta the question.. what you could do is start talkin to him HARD?? yeah im not sayin its not but thats the best thing to do at this point FLIRT thats another obvious answer dont kno how to get back at me.. i got alot of advice for you in that category
2007-03-26 12:16:53 · answer #3 · answered by iiSABEL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh gosh honey we're in the excact same situation! except my guy he's in only one of my classes... (though its a private school so i see him all the time anyways) i agree though just flirt and if he doesn't like you, well too bad, there's plenty o fish in the sea! i had the same thing also last year, witha different guy, he ended up asking me out twice and i said no. (i still hate myself). that was because another girl was absolutely obsessed with him at the same time.
well good luck!!
2007-03-26 12:21:44 · answer #4 · answered by Lalilalila<3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wut i would do in this situation is get him to notce u by wearing really cute clothes, and flirting with him and stuff like that. If he takes this well, then he will probably ask u out. If he doesnt ask u out soon after u do that stuff, then u probably should just get one of ur friends or his friends to talk about u in a good way. (This one will only work for one of his guy friends) Get one of them to be like "She is soooo cute, u should totally ask her out", or sumthin like that. Hope evrything works out ok!!!!
2007-03-26 12:17:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make him like you.. just ask him out!!! He will either say yes or no. Then you will know. You have to learn to take chances and just do it. If you don't someone will snatch your guy up.
2007-03-26 12:14:13 · answer #6 · answered by passionpartiesbymichelle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say just be hes friend and if he does like you he will eventually ask you out, but you can NOT make someone like you. Its just not possible!
2007-03-26 12:20:54 · answer #7 · answered by Ms. Jo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok first of all you shouldnt have to change who you are just to make someone like you. just be yourself. and if he doesnt like you for being the true you then you have no business pursuing someone like that. second, maybe he might not like you if you change. most guys like girls for being themselves. the second guys start seeing changes makes them uninterested. but maybe you should try talking to him more. maybe hell show how he feels more if he thinks your interested too.
2007-03-26 12:15:44 · answer #8 · answered by RUBY<3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him to a place where there will me a few mutual firends and then if that goes well ask him to go somewhere alone sometime
2007-03-26 12:14:49 · answer #9 · answered by chuck 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would ask him how he feels. Tell him you like him, and ask him out. Whats the worst he will say No?
2007-03-26 12:17:05 · answer #10 · answered by hiswadeness 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wear spandex to class
2007-03-26 12:13:09 · answer #11 · answered by Tyrone Biggums 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋