well i asked her out and she said i'll think about it. the next day my friend overheard her and her best friends conversation and said her best friend said"so are you gunna go out wwith him" and she said i don't know. they also said she was really really happy i asked her out. the weird thing is after likea week her friends told me she said no. But after that whole thing she began to be really shy around me and we don't really talk anymore. she looks at me alot during class and looks away when i look. also today in class we were reading this romantic story outloud and she kept staring at me with her head in her hands and looked kinda like she was daydreaming.(0) like this ( =hands 0=head
i'm just really confused now. does she like me? shes also transferring to a different school in may.when i saw her today my heart started beating in a way i never felt before it was........i dunno what to do . should i try again?
2007-03-26 12:09:42 · 25 answers · asked by mugiwara luffy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
TALK TO HER!!
2007-03-26 12:12:23 · answer #1 · answered by amymrgrt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she's just playing hard to get. But if you feel really strongly about her you should try to talk with her and get to know her more, and then ask her out. Because if she leaves and you never talk to her you're going to regret it, not that I'm wishing it but that's what happened to me once with a guy. So try, go and talk to her, withought even thinking about it becuase if you think aboutit much you are probably going to start thinking of things that could happen, so just do it. I mean you don't lose anything by doing it, and plus life is about taking chances isn't it?
2007-03-26 19:17:48 · answer #2 · answered by Little-one 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me that she likes you but is maybe a little shy ..... you should talk to her and help her get past it ..... maybe don't push her about going out just be her friend for a while . Let her know it's ok she said no and that you still like her. Once she is feeling better about what happened you can ask her again. Good luck ... : )
2007-03-26 19:22:02 · answer #3 · answered by uncle louie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She likes you for sure! She's problay not ready to go public with you, sorry it's just what I think. All you have to do is talk to her and not come off too strong right away since she's shy around you. Later on as soon as she gets comfortable being around you again. Ask her on a date that nobody has to know about. Just one date you and her to see how she feels with you. Good Luck!
2007-03-26 19:21:01 · answer #4 · answered by AJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, believe me, she does like you. I used to like this guy, but when he asked me out I said no. Then I wished that he would ask me out again so that I could say no. It could be a lot of things.I think that maybe, if she's a shy person, she is probably afraid that she wouldn't know what to do with you....she's afraid she will mess something up therefore she may think that she's not ready yet. Sometimes when girls get asked out by guys, they ask their friends what they think that they should say. Depending on what type of friends that she has, their answers can be help out of jealousy or truly giving their opinion.( I hope u know what I mean) You know..(you don't need to go out with him because dah dah dah..)they may say. Or she probably didn't like you in the first place but later realized that she really did like you.The best thing to do is to just pull her aside to where she's by herself and ask her out again. If she says 'no'. Ask why.
2007-03-26 19:22:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When a girl does that, that means she didn't know that you liked her and stuff and she didn't think of liking you, and she said no is because she doesn't know if she wants to go out with you or not. And, now that she knows that you like her, she is flirting with you. And it takes time for a girl to like a guy. And, I want you to do is to talk to her, be her friend, and when she knows everything about you, ask her out. That's what girls LOVE. Or some girls.
I hoped I helped
Good Luck!
2007-03-26 19:22:54 · answer #6 · answered by TempoBronze124 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe there is a lot going on...she is worried about transferring and doesnt want a boyfriend. Maybe she is feeling pressure from her friends not to go out with you. Nontheless, tell her how you feel, you miss talking to her. But do it outside of school, when her friends are not around. Just be honest.
2007-03-26 19:14:12 · answer #7 · answered by S M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She could be afraid to start up a relationship with you because of her transferring..Will you still see each other often or what ?? If so, then I would see if she would go out on weekends or something..I hope everything works out...The "heart beating fast" comment..was sooo sweet...Best of luck
2007-03-26 19:23:38 · answer #8 · answered by That Girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should try again! She just made a mistake because she wasn't thinking! I would definently try again. She should say yes and for some weird reason she says no then just say that you will miss her when she leaves and that you will never forget about her.
2007-03-26 19:15:03 · answer #9 · answered by Dave Grohl Wanna Be!!!! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she is just trying to preserve herself from heart ache. If she is transfering schools, and it might be to hard for her to have a relationship at the moment. I would give it another chance. Good Luck-
2007-03-26 19:14:02 · answer #10 · answered by Katie W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
na she shouldn't have said no if she didn't want you and if shes moving trust me long distance does not go well my friend found that out the hard way. Just move on and if she wants you she'll let you know. You shouldn't be her puppy waiting till when its convenient to go out with you!
2007-03-26 19:16:11 · answer #11 · answered by little_ms_ferrer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋