meaning me and my ex got together today and she kissed me. why would she do that if we are just friends. i told her in which everyone knows that a friend's kiss is on the cheek not on the lips. seems like she won't tell me why. she been leaving me in the dark confused why would she do this?
2007-03-26 11:53:58 · 50 answers · asked by sweetnstubbornsensitive 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's very simple sweetie, she still feels for you. Being friends after being together is realllllllllllly hard. The feelings are still there and it's hard to get out of habits like calling each other names like hun or babe. Maybe take a little break from seeing her. Obviously there's some type of hope in her that you guys may get back together. You need to make things as clear as possible for her. Whatever you do, don't have sex. That will make it sooooo much worse. Hope it helps!
2007-03-26 11:59:25 · answer #1 · answered by ☼ Manda Panda ☼ 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She may still have feelings for you,or maybe she just remembers the good times you guys had together and wants to relive them. The kiss could mean many things, the best thing to do is ask her why if it continues. It may mean nothing but it may mean everything.
Your ex still has feelings for you. You'll just have to wait it out or talk it out. Maybe you should just let her kiss you on the lips if she still wants too. I mean, there's no handbook to life, right? If she's leaving you in the dark, just try and separate yourself from her, but still be friendly when you're around her, and find another girl that'll make all your hopes, and ambitions come true!
2007-03-26 12:01:32 · answer #2 · answered by AmericanEagle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she still has feelings 4 u and if u feel the same way take the chance and get back together....
the reason y she is keeping u in the is she thinks u don't feel the same way friends do kiss friends on the lips i kiss my boyfriend on the lips and their is no difference he's a boy and my friend
2007-03-26 12:01:13 · answer #3 · answered by `Avenging~ghetto~bird` 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To have control of the situation. It's hard to say if she really is still into you or not. She may have to make you feel confused to make her feel better.
She might feel sad and hurt and angry that you two aren't together anymore and the only way she can come to terms with that is by making the situation difficult on you. The way you said that "you were just friends" suggests that you were truly comfortable that way. Maybe she wasn't?
Or
She just wants you back?
2007-03-26 11:58:14 · answer #4 · answered by Miss Jose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is doing this deliberately to manipulate you and 'keep you guessing' - which also keeps you tied to her. It's a form of control. Gives her a pathetic power rush. Ignore her, stop dwelling on it and start taking an interest in other things. That will freak her out so much she'll start hanging around YOU, or at least asking friends, to find out what's going on. In short, HER curiousity will be piqued because you will no longer be at the end of the leash for her to jerk.
2007-03-26 13:25:03 · answer #5 · answered by D 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is trying to entice you she still wants you she just wants to keep you confused so your mind is always on her. I know that is cruel, but she wants you and she is going to keep doing little things like this to get you right where she wants you. How about asking her what the deal was with the kiss and why she did that if you guys are just friends?
2007-03-26 11:59:17 · answer #6 · answered by mdboomskwad.mc4u 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I would say that she still misses you even after you have broken up. It doesn't mean that she wants you back, but that she was used to you making love to her or kissing you and she misses that. She just want to remember those moments. There is the possibility that she still likes you and wants to give it another try. Try talking about it if you haven't done so yet.
Good luck.
2007-03-26 12:02:26 · answer #7 · answered by alxever 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is horny and wants some. You are a known person to her, easy sex in other words. She doesn't want anything else than that, just give her some and don't ask for anything else. She hasn't changed over time, the reasons you broke up are still there. Just help her out and leave it at that.
2007-03-26 11:58:06 · answer #8 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Mine did that, shortly before I turned her in for statutory rape. The errors in her life include divorcing me, and sleeping with a teenaged boy, among others. While most women should have the right to vote, some women, and also some men, should not.
2007-03-26 11:58:27 · answer #9 · answered by DayinthePark 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she likes you and still wants to be with you...
Reasons why ex's are still friends is because they have hope of getting back together again.
Especially an X...or can be because she likes your company and is waiting for the next best thing...she wants her cake and eat it too.
2007-03-26 11:57:58 · answer #10 · answered by lotsofluv007 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋