Ok so i think im starting to like this guy and he totally flirts with me. He tried to find my "tickle spot" and plays with my hands. well the past two days he's been grabbing my hand and he holds it. like hw doesnt play with them anymore. im totally falling for him but how do i know he's not doing this with some other girl in another period?? i dont know him too well and he doesnt seem like the "player" type but then again you never know. and today i saw him trying to keep this other girl warm and i asked someone about it and they said that the girl would never go for him. but still. and were not official or anything. he probably doesnt even think that im starting to fall for him. so should i tell him or just let things take their course? im afraid to say something and scare him off. but then again it kinda hurts me to see him around other girls like that. so what should i do?
2007-03-26 11:51:52 · 11 answers · asked by RUBY<3 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
To me he seems like a play boy. No offense. He "tried" to keep the grl "warm". that's a sign that he's hitting on her. But I still think that u MIGHT still have a chance. Good luck!!!!!!! And can u tell me how it ends up? Unless, u think I'm going to personal on u.
2007-03-26 11:55:56 · answer #1 · answered by ~JoBros Luver~ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you don't have to scare him off if you do the right things. You can always ask him straight what he things about you and what you mean to him. You can always ask him if he wants to go into relationship with you. What you saw doesn't mean he's a player maybe just very friendly, but there is always the only one but to find out if it's you, you have to ask him. However if you have any doubts just observe and be careful. It's easy to fall in but harder to fall out.
2007-03-26 12:03:45 · answer #2 · answered by Lost In Space 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it sounds like you should just come out and talk to him about it. If you just keep things the way they are he may not ever know that you are falling for him. Flirt back with him, talk to him more, hang out with him other than just outside of school. See how things go. And if all goes well then talk to him about your feelings, see if he feels the same.
2007-03-26 11:56:13 · answer #3 · answered by Hopeless Romantic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since I am guilty of doing the same as the guy you speak of I would have to say he likes you, but he is not real sure how you feel. I wouldn't worry too much about that other girl. If you like him you may have to ask him out though. He might not have alot of self confidence when it comes to asking women out.
2007-03-26 12:08:03 · answer #4 · answered by hiswadeness 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that you like him. but ask the girls or guys that seem to know him more if he has a girlfriend or not. any guy can be a player so just make sure before you tell him. there is nothing wrong with telling him that you like him.
2007-03-26 11:56:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi,I'm sha'von well I'm in 7th grade and i think that you should just relax first and then make sure that everything is running okay between him and other females just for if you do decide to go with him.just trust yourself and make your move make sure its the rite move at the rite time and in front of any other people to let them know that hes yours and if anyone has a problem with it I'm sure someone will confront you about it.
2007-03-26 11:59:43 · answer #6 · answered by Strapped 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl you should just ask him what the crap is going on..... noone needs to be lead around like a dog on a leash... and no guy is worth hurting over..... believe me i have had way too much experience in that field....
good luck to ya
2007-03-26 11:57:34 · answer #7 · answered by chickie_baby84 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm.. sounds like maybe he's a big flirt. Maybe with lots of girls. But that doesn't necessarily mean he's a player.
2007-03-26 11:54:55 · answer #8 · answered by c 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats just like me . I like this girl and I hate when She gets Around other guys. well you should ask him for is phone number and see if he likes you.
2007-03-26 12:00:57 · answer #9 · answered by Hes perry perry the platupus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think hes an honest guy he tried to keep her warm wow thats stupid
2007-03-26 12:01:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋