2007-03-26 11:48:32 · 58 answers · asked by girl_that_is_blue 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i got a perfect answer from a friend that should put it in perspective....
-Girls are like apples on trees
-the best ones are at the top
-the boys dont want to reach for the good ones because there scared that they might fall and get hurt
-instead, they get the rotten apples from the ground that arent as good, but easy
-so the apples on top think that there is something wrong with them when in reality, they are amazing
--they just have to wait for the right guy to come along that is brave enough to climb all the way to the top.
2007-03-27 09:16:29 · answer #1 · answered by dirky15 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Because there exist only few worth their salt, as it would appear that you are such a woman as well, and such folks are not that many in number, sad but true.
The few may not win popularity contests, but they do win in the long run. It has a lot to do with instant gratification vs. working for it and doing things the hard way, that is so long the end result is important to you aside from the gain of the moment.
So those guys are probably not worth your time, and yes I am very sorry it appears so many behave thusly, frustrating it is.
2007-03-26 11:52:36 · answer #2 · answered by netthiefx 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I cant speak for everyone, but I dont think we do . what we really want is for a girl/woman to give us a firm NO. not before marrage,to let us know ,in our minds that women/girls really are valuable, beautiful creations. Not to be harmed or abused. The reason I think this way, is because i've seen so many women/ girls, get cast away after she gives in. The male is a preadator by nature, and wants a high score. Say no to them, then you cant get rid of them. try it.
2007-03-26 11:56:39 · answer #3 · answered by zanzabarr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys that are looking for sluty girls because they have low self confident, they dont believed that they can get someone better, so mind as well settle for whatever, wouldn't you agree? one more thing, good girls are hard to find, and need to be patient, persistent, and etc, and not every guy willing to do that, so easy come the better for them. by the way, im just guessing.
2007-03-26 11:53:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Guys are very visual. The reason that guys may go for a "slut" is because they are just looking to get laid.
Men aren't looking for a committment when they're young. They're looking to experiment and have fun.
P.S. Most of the time they're not really looking for slutty girls - slutty girls find them. :P
2007-03-26 11:52:31 · answer #5 · answered by Niko 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I do not look for slutty girls. I do not want to kiss a girl that had fifty penises in her mouth. Just like I am clean, I would like a clean girl who respects her body and has a self esteem. Whores have no self esteem. They do every guy because they feel good that at least someone wants to do them.
2007-03-26 11:51:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
We're Not (not all of us anyway)- most are actually looking for a wonderful, nice, intelligent girl who will be a little slutty once in a while in private. Slutty girls move on to the next guy - good riddance - the aforementioned girls are keepers.
2007-03-26 11:53:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
BECAUSE THEY DON'T WANT SLUTY GIRLS. BUT IF THEY RUN INTO ONE, THEY'LL TAKE WHAT YOU WANT TO GIVE THEM. MEN (TAKE NOTE: NOT BOYS) ARE NOT INTERESTED IN WOMEN WHO ARE EASY! GET IT! MORE THAN THAT, THEY'RE NOT PARTICULARLY INTERESTED VERY MUCH IN A WOMAN WHO SHOWS OFF HER BREASTS (CLEAVAGE) BECAUSE THEY UNDERSTAND THE WOMAN HAS LOW SELF ESTEEM AND FEELS THAT'S THE ONLY WAY TO GET A MAN TO EVEN LOOK AT HER. MEN LOVE MYSTERY SO COVER UP GIRLS AND LET EM BEG. DON'T BE EASY WITH YOUR BODY-MEN LOVE A WOMAN WHO RESPECTS HER BODY AND WILL NOT FEEL LIKE SHE HAS TO COMPETE WITH OTHER WOMEN TO SEE HOW MUCH SKIN SHE CAN SHOW OFF JUST TO GET A MAN TO LOOK AT HER. A MAN WANTS A WOMAN HE CAN RESPECT!!!!!!!! GOT IT?
2007-03-26 11:58:16 · answer #8 · answered by All That Glitters isn't Gold 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
PROBABLY BECAUSE THEY ARE ARE EASY. Personally I think a woman you must court and respect and get to know over time is much more fulfilling when the initial intimacy begins. Married almost 8yrs. come Oct.
2007-03-26 11:53:24 · answer #9 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most guys are lazy. There are many slutty girls out there and it is easy for them to get one.
It takes a lot more to get a good virtuous girl.
2007-03-26 11:52:50 · answer #10 · answered by J T 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋