i just told this girl i love her. and she told me she loved me back but her parents wont let her date yet. me and her are both 14 and you might think were to young for love but i really do love this girl. but i am going to meet with her parents after church sunday and i dont know what to say. i am asking them for premission to date their daughter but i dont know how to ask. please help me.
2007-03-26 11:41:00 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you are sooo cute! just be like "Mr. and Mrs. so and so i really like your daughter and i was wondering if maybe i can take her out sometime." and then if they dont say anything tell them you will always have her home on time and youll take good care of her and you wont rush in to a deep relationship and stuff like that but dont talk to fast or theyll think youre desperate and have an idea of when and where you want to take her
2007-03-26 11:46:11 · answer #1 · answered by kay 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What my parents used to call that is "Puppy Love". I fell in love for the first time when I was 15 and he was 14. We were truly in love just as you. We continued to be in love for 5 years. All the way through my first year of college. I remember the first time he came to my house to ask my parents if I could go out on a date with him. My parents said NO because we were too young, but we could go out as long as our parents were with us.
Take what ever her parents give you. If they say she can't date yet, tell them you will wait until she can. They will respect you for that. Your girlfriend will too.
Good luck and share many memories together.. don't break her heart! ;-)
2007-03-26 18:47:35 · answer #2 · answered by passionpartiesbymichelle 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are going about it the right way by asking her parents. But understand that for now with both of yous being 14, you should ask to take her to a movie on a Sat. afternoon . I was chaperoned when I was asked to go skating by a boy at your age . His mother came with us. For now I would ask them for their permission to let her go to a movie with you. Let them get to know you and see how responsible you are. I wouldn't tell them your name is STUD on questions and answers.
2007-03-26 18:53:46 · answer #3 · answered by auntkarendjjb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it helps to be yourself. Be honest. And just go with the flow of things. There is always the possibility that they will not approve so way out all of your options. Just be natural and try not to get to nervous.
2007-03-26 18:45:22 · answer #4 · answered by cheyenne29646 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age in years has little to do with it, but from your posting style, you need to grow up a good deal before you can say you are in love.
2007-03-26 18:46:31 · answer #5 · answered by Lost in Erehwon 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If I were you,I would stabilized a friendship to her family,and when her parents trusted you , you can ask them if it's alright to take her to a movie or concert..Good Luck.
2007-03-26 18:50:35 · answer #6 · answered by Vannili 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
talk to the parents about working for them doing some chores or sompthing then bring it up when they feel comfortable with you.earning trust and showing trust helps
2007-03-26 18:46:03 · answer #7 · answered by longtreebeard 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow...
im not allowed to date either...
strict parents...
i just turned 15 last saturday...
hmmm....
so if ur going to meet her parents...
act friendly to them...
show them that ur trustworthy first...
dont ask for a date right away...
u would seem tooo forward...
get to know them and stuff...
once u can tell they like you...
then ask for the date....
good luck...!!
2007-03-26 18:46:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont ask for permission, smile say your name, and say you are freinds, 14 years old you have alot to learn about love and lust
2007-03-26 18:44:54 · answer #9 · answered by Tom M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just say hi mrs. and mr. ... say i'm ... and i think your daughter is very special, and beautiful. i would like to ask your permission to date her. thats it... parents love that.
ummmmmmmmmm also dads love it when you shake their hands sternly!
2007-03-26 18:47:49 · answer #10 · answered by Emily 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋