i've met a guy online and we have met twice. he was the one who asked to meet me 3 times in fact.i have also met his best friend and we seemed to get on. anyway we talk nearly everyday over msn and he always starts it off . i really like him but i can't help but feel paranoid that he doesn't feel the same. i mean fine maybe we are not meant to be, but i would like to know where i stand. i send xs but he replies with just a 'bye babe' or a bye for now chat later .men not good at showing emotions? He once sent me a heart, maybe i'm looking into things to deeply i've only known him a month but I feel I can trust him and that he’s a real gentleman he always makes me laugh. From what I’ve said does it sound as if he only likes me as a friend or more?? Thanks I’m really confused I don’t want to lose his friendship by asking if he likes me and I don’t want to make a fool of myself if he doesn’t
2007-03-26 11:36:49 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
From what you've written it seems like he does like you as more than a friend - especially with the heart thing. Maybe he's not sure you like him since it sounds like he's always initiating getting together and msn conversations. Why don't you start a conversation, or suggest you two meet up for something that's more date-like - dinner and a movie or something?
2007-03-26 11:43:30 · answer #1 · answered by Mojito Burrito 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably expects more than just friendship if he's so often after you. One possible reason why he doesn't show more of his feelings is because you seem already too attached to him. He's likely to thinks that things are moving too fast, that the xxx are too early. Another more plausible reason for this coldness? He knows quite a few things about seducing women. One of the most valuable asset for a man in the realm of seduction is... independance. When you feel the Beauty is hooked up, it is very amusing and instructive to keep your distance for a while. This way you can be sure that the crush is serious. Also the fact of not appearing too stressed out with girls is very appealing. The fact of being cool involves being able to (should I say that in public!?) operate in bed.
2007-03-26 19:08:05 · answer #2 · answered by francislarocque 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi ,u sound very passionate woman and thats a rare quality these days,not every man can be with u ,u r special and very romantic,and when u love u give it all the way ,its nice u met someone u like ,but always remember if u get involved its not so easy to pull out if hurt,take it slowly one at a time,and it will emerge by itself if its a clear road or a foggy one,for your type clear roads r always better ,becoz love to u is infinity,(i am like u and i empathize ,and i know how u feel ,and ppl like us r hard to find the real paradise)
2007-03-26 18:46:41 · answer #3 · answered by reifguy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would advice you to start working on making him like you.. you need to up your game.. don't make everything so easy for him.. stop sending xoxox's if he responds with a bye babe. I have always thought that sometimes its best to lay all your cards on the table and tell someone how you feel.. what could be worse really.. them telling you they don't like you now or them waiting 5 months to tell you they never liked you..
2007-03-26 18:46:06 · answer #4 · answered by tamrastic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
online relationships are not the best way to meet people. try to find someone who you can see almost every week.
2007-03-26 18:40:02 · answer #5 · answered by Erica 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i dont know just sit back and wait and see what happens cause you dont know he could be chatting to other girls aswell so take it slow and see what happens and if it was ment to it will happen
2007-03-26 18:49:42 · answer #6 · answered by scrummy mummy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋