In the beginning of January my grandma got lost and was missing for 4 days in the snow all because I had her cell phone, she didn't no I had it but I only had it because I was talking to my boyfriend behind everyone’s back because my family is racist and my boyfriend is Mexican....she is ok but how was I supposed to no she was going to be hurt, my mom walked out on me when I was 15 she ran from the cops, I’m 17 now and my uncle thinks he owns me even though no one has legal custody of me or my 15 year old brother, anyways they found out I had the phone and kicked me out they said I tried to kill my own grandma then my mom out of no where said I had to move in with her which if I did I wouldn't be in a safe place because she's on drugs so I ran-a-way with my boyfriend of 5 years no one ever reported me a run-a-way I think I had every right to leave and now my mom got a hold of my boyfriends father and said she don't care where I am she just wants to give me my birth certificate.....
2007-03-26 11:32:02 · 2 answers · asked by ~*Vanessa*~ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
So I could get a job, I found out that no one ever cared and I’ve been gone for 3 months...now I’m really on my own I don't no weather to be happy or scared of what comes next I just really need advice, why do I feel so bad when she walked out on me?
2007-03-26 11:32:51 · update #1
You know my friend, what you suffer from is called abandonment. You have every right to feel this way. The ones who should love you most and unconditionally are the ones that judge you and leave you. You must be strong now my friend, don't let this feeling of loss impair you, let it give you strength. Strength to take that step, that wonderful step into the big world, you're on your own now and that's not necessarily a bad thing. This can be a very good thing. But please be careful, think things thru because now every step you take, every decision you make, directly affects your life and where it is headed. So think before you take each step. Good Luck.
2007-03-26 12:31:24 · answer #1 · answered by fgsgirl1 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why do you feel bad? You're mom was not there for you. Of course you'd feel bad, lonely, neglected, scared. It sounds like you're on your own. I wish for you that you will make decent friends whocare about you. Find a good church. God loves you and he is waiting for you to come to Him. I'm serious. My life was rotten for so long until I found Jesus.
2007-03-26 18:43:32 · answer #2 · answered by VW 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋