I went over to this kid's house who I really like but I had never really talked to before. He invited me over to hang out.
We started kissing and making out and he asks me to have sex with him. I'm not a virgin but I don't just have sex with people I've never even talked with before. I used to but I realized that it wasn't getting me anywhere.He told me "it will be fun" and I said "yeah maybe if I knew you better."
He then gets up, throws his clothes on and storms out of the room, and then goes to our other mutual friend and says "******* take her home!" ( because i didn't have my car with me)
Now I have class with him first thing in the morning in an assigned seating room and we sit right next to each other. I also later found out that he blocked my phone number just in case i tried to call.
What do i Do?
and No i'm not like 12...i'm 18
2007-03-26 11:31:38 · 25 answers · asked by GCTA 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like you got a real winner there.... If i were you i'd count my blessings that you didnt' sleep with him because if he was that much of a jerk when you said no, could you imagine what he would be telling everyone if you had said yes?
Guys like that aren't worth the time stressing over what to do. He's obviously a jerk and i wouldn't waste any time thinking about him. You made the right decision, the random sex thing only gets you one thing... a very bad reputation. At least now you know that he wasn't someone you should try to invest any time with.
If you're worried about what he might say about you saying no, don't. Any guy that gets that mad because you won't sleep with them on the first date isn't someone you should want to impress. And i'm sure eventually everyone else will get a clue as to what kind of guy he really is.
2007-03-26 11:39:58 · answer #1 · answered by Dawnwalker 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good for you! Notice that when he didn't get what he truly wanted (just the sex, nothing else) that he got mad and threw a fit like a 2-year old child? Someone who truly "loves" you wouldn't do that, nor would someone who is an adult!
If I were you I'd stick my nose in the air and thank God you didn't have anything further happen with that jerk. You're a lot better than that and deserve better than that!
Question: Why are you kissing and making out with someone you hardly know? Be careful. You could have gotten yourself raped.
2007-03-26 20:51:27 · answer #2 · answered by D 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok look the guy is a jerk. i had a guy do something similar to this to me before and the guy was a total jerk. the best thing to do is to tell the guy you did not want to sleep with him because you did not know him that well and you are not a slut so you don't sleep around. also just tell the guy you would like to get to know him better before dropping your pants for him. and if he's still a jerk keep living your life like nothing happened. don't let him know that you are bothered by him because he will be an even bigger jerk if he knows that you are bothered by him. if you need some more info. my e-mail is lindsey_brrtt@yahoo.com i'm also 18 so i kinda know how you feel since something similar just happened to me not too long ago.
2007-03-26 18:43:04 · answer #3 · answered by Lulu 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
SHun the little piece of sh*t. Why should you have to worry about his thoughtless gesture....You should have stopped when the kissing began....
I appluad you for having the courage to stand up for yourself. Caving into peer pressure can lead you to sacrifice your self worth and your self respect.
No snot nosed punk is worth that. Hold your head high and don't worry about it.
Most of us experienced and mature guys actually value a girl that has self respect. It shows a sincere guy what you'll be like in a relationship.
The guys that don't care just want to get into your pants.
Go for the good guy.....they never finish last.
2007-03-26 18:40:06 · answer #4 · answered by tito_swave 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, it sounds like this guy is sooooo not worth it! He was obviously just looking for a piece of *** and got offended that you didn't give in.
Just be like "whatever" and go on living your life. Seeing him in class may be uncomfortable, but you'll get over it, especially if you keep reminding yourself what a baby and quite frankly an *** he made of himself with you. He messed up what could have been fun. Good luck!
2007-03-26 18:43:40 · answer #5 · answered by m 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ignore him, he is just being a stupid, give him time to get over it. After it has been a while talk to him about it. Explain to him your not one of those girls that goes around and has sex with anyone, and tell him that if he doesnt like that then maybe you guys shouldnt be friends.
2007-03-26 18:37:47 · answer #6 · answered by Marilyn 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This guy obviously isn't interested in you or in getting to know you. To him, you would be just another f***. Forget him, he's not worth your attention nor your time. And if he tries anything later on, you already know the type of person he is.
PS Good for you for not jumping in the sack w/ just anyone, you can only learn from past mistakes.
2007-03-26 18:39:45 · answer #7 · answered by TXgal 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What do you do? You do nothing...it is a good thing you didn't sleep with him...I agree 100% with the other poster...
So what that he blocked your number, there is no reason to call him anyway...and the fact that you have to sit next to him...well that sucks but just ignore him and hold your head high that you didn't have sex with that loser...good luck
2007-03-26 18:37:34 · answer #8 · answered by poker_fan_in_nyc 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just go on like normal. If any issues come up, just be honest about the situation. Everyone will laugh that he threw a tantrum like a little baby about not having sex.
2007-03-26 18:57:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well im a guy and i think u made a quality choice kncoking him back as once u give it up theres nothing to chase if u know what i mean fuc* him hes a willy ignore him hes probably got a maggot when u love someone or like them enough sex is nothing muahah :D u sound sensible i like that well done
2007-03-26 18:36:36 · answer #10 · answered by alan m 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋