People always tell me I'm pretty, and not to be braggy, but I'm not ugly. No boys have ever asked me out and im 13. Why?? How do I get a bf?
2007-03-26 11:28:48 · 22 answers · asked by theonlyexception 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it's always like this during middle school. the girls that have boyfriends are either super popular or super trashy/slutty. TONS of nice, pretty, normal girls go all throughout middle school, and even throughout high school, without boyfriends.
i know a lot of girls who are pretty, nice, etc. etc. yet, no one ever asked them out during middle school. believe me, middle school dating isn't all that interesting, either, so ur not missing much. it mainly consists of im-ing and holding hands in the hallway.
anyway, basically just don't wry about having a boyfriend yet, and focus on your school work and friends. boyfriends are a lot more work than they're worth (sometimes), especially in middle school
2007-03-26 11:37:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you're pretty, you probably intimidate the guys you're own age. If you happen to be a little shy, too, which you didn't mention, then that might get confused with being conceited.
Just be yourself, be nice to people, and if you have someone in mind that you might want to date, let it slip to someone who might let that person know.
If you already know the person you want as your bf, spend more time with them, show interest in what they're doing and if he doesn't clue in, ask him if he wants to do something some time.
When I was younger, I essentially needed someone to hit me over the head for me to clue in. Boys are late bloomers, so you either have to wait for them to catch up or be a little more proactive.
Keep in mind, too, that no one can read your mind. Sometimes, you have to find a subtle way to make your intentions known in order to get what you want.
Good Luck. Things will work out.
2007-03-26 11:43:39 · answer #2 · answered by M C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's because you're 13. They're shy. But, if any guys did like you, you'd be able to tell. Looks aren't enough (but in some cases they are to get like 4 guys you don't know liking you...problem of mine recently). Personality is also a big role. So try to see. Do you have an attractive personality?
2007-03-26 11:33:48 · answer #3 · answered by Isabella R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had the same problem as you maybe you aren't as outgoing as other girls your age or maybe you are too shy around them. Try to be a little more social w/ guys. Don't rush things though I'm sure if you are patient the perfect guy will come.
<3 Jen
2007-03-26 11:35:52 · answer #4 · answered by Jen <3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look your 13 and even if you had a BF its not like you will be with him forever.Because eventually you will grow up and find a nice guy to settle down with.Basically what im saying is that don't worry about it until it really matters and when your ready to settle down.
2007-03-26 11:38:13 · answer #5 · answered by jakcool06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your 13!! Don't worry your time will come! You are so young. And boyfriends only make being 13 that much more complicated. Enjoy being young and don't worry about boyfriends.
2007-03-26 11:32:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cuz you are too young, you should wait for the right one, that one that you really love, not just go out with anybody who will ask, I am sure you dont want that too.....so good luck and dont rush things up
2007-03-26 11:34:19 · answer #7 · answered by my angel is 2 1/2 now:) 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be in a rush for a boyfriend...trust me you have years ahead of you for that. Be 13...have fun...you don't need a boyfriend!
2007-03-26 11:34:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your 13, some people don't have bfs in senior year, give it a break.
2007-03-26 11:31:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Patience little girl, patience! You're only 13.
2007-03-26 12:22:52 · answer #10 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋