I am a very passive person and i really try hard not to let things get to me EVER! Cuz a few years ago during my parents divorce when they were fighting all of the time and me and my little sister picked up on it...I lost my temper once with her while they were fighting upstairs and i lost it i was so scared and i scared my little sister so badly...I realized i was losing it before i did anything except yell but i went into my room and i started shaking and i couldn't breathe...i had to go to the hospital...After that incident i have tried to be very neutral about everything, cuz i don't ever want that to happen again...but now my lil sis is having issues and she's been pulling away from the family...she's 14. I tried talking to her but she gets so angry anytime i try, my parents don't know what to do i am like the mediator of the family...and she won't talk to my mom or dad at all and she hate's my other sis now too...i want to say something but i don't want her to hate me...HELP!
2007-03-26 11:28:26 · 6 answers · asked by 1.2..3...Boo 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Not Literally...It's lyrics to the song...Until the day i die...jeez
2007-03-26 11:36:47 · update #1
obviously the blood soaked shirt was a creative way to get people to read this, good thinking, I can relate to your problem but sweety you don't have to be the mediator in the family, it's not your job to be the parent, I'm so glad you realized your anger was heading towards something worse in time, before you hurt any one including yourself, but always remember other peoples problems are just that other peoples problems even if those people are your parents, as for your sister acting out, she could just be going through a stage where she hates everyone with absolutly no reason to. Don't keep things bottled up, deal with the emotions you are trying to hide from, you have not included your age, but you sound far to young to have all this drama to deal with on your own, do you have grand parents or other family members you can talk to, a problem shared is a problem halved.
Your sister will get through this, just let her know you are there for her if and when she needs you....good luck and remember to take care of you before you take care of any one else.
2007-03-26 11:50:16 · answer #1 · answered by The Boss 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
it is not your promblem what your mom and daddy started , al you can do is be there for your little sister when she need you . and if your a child of god pray. jesus will help you all
2007-03-26 18:49:47 · answer #2 · answered by tiny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should just listen to her.
maybe all she needs is someone to talk to.
hear her out. communication is all you can really do.
2007-03-26 18:36:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha... funny.
2007-03-26 22:57:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
W T F!!
2007-03-26 18:34:54 · answer #5 · answered by notyochic 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What???
2007-03-26 18:33:29 · answer #6 · answered by Priscilla R 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋