im trying to prepare for when me and this girl have our first kiss...ive never done a serious kiss before so i want to make sure i get it right...
2007-03-26 11:18:04 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The first kiss should never have tongue!
You want the first kiss to show your sensitive gentle side, yet you want it to hint at more. Your first kiss wont lead to sex so your not trying to come across like a stud or anything. You want to give her a gentle kiss two to three switches and hang on to her lip a little longer for the last part.
If your gentle and show your feelings in the kiss when your hanging on for that little bit before you stop, she may come back and continue kissing you. If this happens kiss her again for about 3-4 more switches and hang on to the other lip as you finish just a little bit longer just as before.
This is a gentle seductive kiss that will tell your partner you want more but don't want to rush things. This gets most girls warm inside. If you use tongue it ruins the gentle tone of this type of kiss.
When I say hang on I don't mean long I'm only talking about .5 second to .75 second longer. During that time of holding on you want to pull away just slightly so you are gently pulling the lip away from her.
2007-04-03 07:48:40 · answer #1 · answered by Rumin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good Luck! The first kiss is always messy. Chances are it's not gonna go anything like the kiss of your dreams. My first kiss was horrible, the guy was incredibly confident but lacked any skill. It was like kissing a drooly dog.
My advise for you is don't put too much stress on yourself to make it perfect. Nothing in life is perfect. You just have to make the best of it. Keep it simple though, minimal tongue and don't open your mouth too wide.
Just relax, every friend of mine had a bad first kiss but it usually ends up just being a funny story, and more of a reason to try again.
2007-03-26 11:26:10 · answer #2 · answered by Dawnwalker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shoulda practiced first. You've gotta take all the experience you gained with your other kisses and master them up into this one.
However, don't go in planning it, just let it happen.
But - relax; no super monster tongue (I can't tell you how many girls I've talked to that say bad things about too much tongue action - and you don't wanna be *that guy); go for each lip a little bit;
Good luck little man
2007-03-26 11:20:45 · answer #3 · answered by Joe C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a first kiss is really important...
just by that, it can determine how well a relationship will go....
make sure ur in a romantic spot...
then make sure u and the girl are both ready to lean in for the kiss...
cuz u dont want to bump into each other and hurt ur noses or something...lol
make sure ur in a comfortable place so u won't feel so conscious about people watching..(if ur the shy type)
but when its really close to the kiss...
the way to do it will just come to yah...
practicing would just make u more nervous...
juz make sure ur ready and comfortable
doing it or it would turn out not so well...
so just relax and go for it...=p
2007-03-26 11:27:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kisses (especially awesome ones) just happen naturally. Its kinda hard to prepare for one I guess. If you chose, you can place your hand on her neck/cheek area, to make it more personal and just.....do it! Dont over think it though! That makes you nervous and can totally ruin a kiss. Have fun!
2007-03-26 11:22:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, don't prepare for it. You both will feel when the moment is just right. It will happen all on it's own.
2007-04-03 08:56:24 · answer #6 · answered by Dennis K. B C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you gotta do is wait for the right moment little man, you'll know when it comes to you... Then just move in and do what you do!
2007-03-26 11:22:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) Be gentle and soft, do not press hard
2) Hold her around her waist, not her butt!
3) The rest comes naturally!! Good luck!
2007-03-26 11:24:21 · answer #8 · answered by Lal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It just happens,man. Believe me, everything is so natural. And you'd be suprised.
2007-03-26 11:22:08 · answer #9 · answered by The Random Blonde 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just turn ur head and kiss her mabey put ur tonnge in to matering what kind of girl she is
2007-03-26 11:35:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋