Ok so me and my bf have been going out for about a week now. And he hasnt even hugs me, held my hand or anything!!! Its like we arent even going out. We were friends and then we went out. I thought he might think it was ackward or something but he talks to me though in the halls. But today I thought about asking him if he wanted to go to the movies. And when we were walkign to ou bus I thought it would be a good time. But his friend Lucus was with us, (he rides the same bus as us) and he didnt really talk to me that much. I thought "does he even like me???" So i didnt ask him to go to the movies cuz i thought it would b aclward to ask him if he didnt like me. Even tho he have only been going out for 1 week. I dont get it.
2007-03-26 11:18:01 · 12 answers · asked by dancingurl_22 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok what you realy should do here is ask him to go to the movies.. that realy the best movie.. if he says anything besides yes.. you might wana ask another question.. like when can you guys hang out you want to be with him.. you realy should express your feelings with him.. maybe he doesnt know how to treat a girl yet this could be new to him or maybe he doesnt like you anymore and doesnt have it to tell you yet.. if he says no because he is buzy you need to ask when.. if he says he doesnt know.. then im sorry you should let him go or at most ask him if he likes you anymore cause you feel rejected. if he says no cause he dont like movies or doesnt like to many people.. then he realy doesnt like you and again ask him that.. ok your first week should be the best week.. you should be all over eachother.. strange he is not.. dont worry about his friend... if you cant get away.. but go to him and ask about the movies.. its more to see if he'll say yes or no... o and if he says yes but then doesnt go with you.. then forget him.. cause thats rude and mean.. on many levels.. ok hope that helps.. let me know how it goes..
2007-03-26 11:31:47 · answer #1 · answered by Dr.Icebreaker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's only been a week, I don't think you can really judge anything yet, maybe he just feels awkward or doesn't want tojump into things or hasn't had a girlfriend before. you've only been going out a week and he's probably known Lucus longer so he is more used to talking to him and probably doesn't want to ignore him
2007-03-26 18:24:35 · answer #2 · answered by Sam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe he has never had a gf before and just doesnt know how to act and maybe he's the type of guy that likes the girl to call all the shots
2007-03-26 18:23:21 · answer #3 · answered by babygirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy doesn't appreciate you. You need to teach him a lesson. May I suggest spiking his drink with laxatives? After a catastrophic, public bowel movement in his pants, he'll think twice about ignoring you.
2007-03-26 18:21:29 · answer #4 · answered by jimmyb20032003 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i mean no huggin that is messed UP. i would talk to him and ask him what is goin on in his life mabey somthin bad happened in family wise
2007-03-26 18:28:32 · answer #5 · answered by Nikki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok well i would hope that my boyfriend liked me! if he didnt there would be a serious problem. hes not your boyfriend! grow up little one.
2007-03-26 18:22:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust me he's just shy and he doesnt want to overstep his boudaries. he's afraid of losing you by acting too soon. trust me im just like that.
2007-03-26 18:24:33 · answer #7 · answered by Hunter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he likes u still but is afraid to talk to u b/c u and his relationship changed and he doesnt kno wat to do
u should try callin him and ask him to go to the movies
so much more private
2007-03-26 18:22:17 · answer #8 · answered by provi43 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he may like u AS a friend. but doesn't want anything more. =(
2007-03-26 18:28:46 · answer #9 · answered by dani_babe_lml 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he probably wants to know you 1st?or he probably has to get use to you ?
2007-03-26 18:23:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋