"True Love" doesn't exist like you're looking for it.
Relationships take work, often more than we realize. Even once you've found a person that you love and that loves you, you're not going to have 'happily ever after' because you've still got to work on things together.
Relationships are not 50/50, they are 100/100. Both people have to give their all to make things work.
You're certainly not going to meet your 'true love' just sitting around. You've got to get out there and find him/her/it. It's just the way it is. Unless you expect him or her to drive through your front door, you've got to be available.
Prepare yourself for some disappointment and then start dating. None of us are perfect; be as picky as you want, but don't be completely unrealistic. I'd say your first step is altering your mindset about things, then go out and find what you're looking for.
Good Luck.
2007-03-26 11:19:34
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answered by M R 2
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Well the lesson you probably still haven't learned is that you shouldn't be sitting around waiting for that one special person to show up. You should be spending your time living a fulfilling life. You should have hobbies or special interests to be part of. In addition, have you been working on "Self" you know you have to be that special person for someone else as well. How is your character, your attitude, your credit, your finances etc.... focus on becoming that special person and live your life. I'm sure that you will become more noticeable and special to someone who is looking.
2007-04-03 09:40:01
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answered by Felisha S 2
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Don't stay there and wait.
Continue your life normally, go to places and enjoy be surrounded by people.
Because two soul mate is always meant to meet and also because love can't fly with only one wings, it should get the other wings to be able to fly.
The one you are waiting for can be anywhere and can be anyone.
Because there is so much people on the earth.
If you really trust in love, you will get the one you are waiting for.
Maybe patience is needed but well if it's for your soul mate then you can wait.
But continue your life normally.
Because you can meet this special person anytime at any place.
Gud Luck.
2007-03-26 11:23:17
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answered by Sweet-Kitty-Lolita 1
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Sorry, but I don't like the whole idea of what you just said! Who says that that is what you are suppose to do anyway?Sitting around and waiting for 'love' to fall in your lap, makes me cringe. Whats the give away that the next person that 'finds you' is your 'true love' anyway? Do things that make you happy, while your 'waiting' at least.
2007-03-26 11:28:40
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answered by the anomaly23 4
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It's because your waiting for someone that you can't find anyone. I know it sounds cliche, but you will find your one true love when you least expect it. Just stop looking for that special person to come into your life. For 3 years you've spent wishing that you had a true love??!? You could have saved the world or found a cure for cancer!! Don't wait for someone to show up and profess thier love to you, just go on living your life, and you will find someone. You may find your true love tomorrow, or you may find your true love in another 3 years. You never know.
2007-03-26 11:24:41
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answered by NoNameNoFace 2
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What are you doing to find your true love? Are you living a great single life or are you sitting by yourself in your home waiting? First, you need to find out who you are and what you really want in a relationship. I mean, be really clear. You can learn ways to sort, screen, and test possible partners. You can try new ways to meet possible partners. You need to put yourself out there if you are ever going to find anybody. Get a singles coach, take a relationship class, join a singles group. So many ways to find love.
2007-03-26 11:20:34
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answered by Anonymous
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Well, your holding on to an idea that takes time to develope and grow. True love is not something sitting there for you to just find one day. You have to try out relationships and learn from them-as this happens you will grow and develope even more what you notion of true love is. It will be different than what it is now if you get out there and try.
2007-03-26 11:22:39
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answered by Anonymous
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Don't sit around waiting, get busy building a fun, exciting interesting life. Waiting is a test- be worthy of the type of person you want to attract. Someone who sits around waiting isn't going to attract the same type of person as someone who is active and enjoys life.
2007-03-26 11:15:57
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answered by Anonymous
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Don't wait. Find.
There is no "one special person" for anyone. It's all about what you have in common with someone else. You work at it in a relationship for someone to be your "one special person" and they do the same with you, through loving and fighting and all that falls inbetween.
Fate in overrated. You have to do it yourself....
2007-04-03 10:49:17
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answered by shellj_foxy 3
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Find something to do. What are you interested in? Do things related to what you enjoy and perhaps you will find someone with similar interests to enjoy doing those things with.
Above all, QUIT sittin around waiting! Live life now, it passes faster than you think! (3 years is nothing! Nothing! Try 20+!)
2007-03-26 11:20:50
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answered by rugbee 4
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